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Thing the first, I'm utterly confused at where I had ever called anyone a troll. I may have been snippy in my responses, but that's because someone told me to "get over it" and I think I've made myself clear on where I stood on that particular phrase. Anyway, I've been distracted by other shinies (Code Geass, why do you do this to me? Tenipuri, go

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[sharon28]

on the top vs. bottom position of Ray and Benny in a relationship. Mostly I think it's not so much because the lack of differing preference of who does the pitching

I think I see Ray as more the pitcher and Benny as the catcher. For some reason my mind seems to think that Ray would be the one to top most, I think it has something to do with my observations from SLIR(, as well as other instances in the series-though mainly SLIR).

It's not just because Fraser seems to lack an ability to pick any romantic interest who is not brow beating him into a relationship, because Ray tends to go for strong, dominant women too, but because Fraser, when approaching the relationship, is very reluctant and cautious. Even his relationship with Victoria

I very much agree with you here. Victoria is very much the one in control in their relationship.

I personally found Fraser's "love" for Victoria questionable, since he keeps repeating only that he loves her but can't say why he loves her.

I've never really considered that Fraser might not love Victoria. I suppose the whole almost dying together bit might have given him a false view of their relationship. He seems to think that he knows her, but he doesn't even come close. He says in the episode "Say Amen" that 'it can be difficult to know people, especially if you lack experience', he's talking about the 16 year old girl but it's so obvious it's about him and his experiences with Victoria. I think I've wandered off the point a bit. Sorry.