P.S.
I finally decided on a tatoo.... and it's GENIOUS. As soon as it dawned on me I just *knew*. I love it. It's awesome. Jessica will appreciate it the most I think... I am going to get a four leaf clover. Because I am one lucky son of a bitch. =) dunno where yet... ideas would be appreciated!! (also might get my new middle name underneath it, but i'm not sure)