hmm
i am going to have serious heart problems by the time this year is over. cabrera makes my heart race and then slow, race and then slow. haha too much fluctuation for my body to handle.
nawwww..i can do it. it'll only make us all stronger in the end
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i was thinking about maturity today. and i dont consider myself "immature" at all anymore. yea i do act immature at times (who doesnt?), but my overall persona/thoughts/sense of responsibility are not. i have definitely matured more over the past few months. i used to solely rely on my girl friends to make me happy when i was down or mad, but i have learned this summer how to make myself happy and content. i battled through many of my emotions alone, and w/o feeling the urge to call someone to help me out. i have realized the goals that are important to me. i have experienced many new situations that i can put into perspective. and i have learned how NOT to act in certain situations, and to be respectful when it is needed. also, the fact that one should try to see things from other peoples' perspectives.
but i have most definitely not reached the point where i would call myself "Mature". i get closer to that level, but i don't think i will ever reach that seeming finish point. what exactly does that mean anyways. am i being 'immature' when i am laughing loudly in the halls and having a blast? not to me. am i being 'mature' when i am calm and have no emotion on my face? nope. am i being 'immature' when i constantly disrupt class when the teacher is talking. yes, that is rude, and a part of what i think maturing is, is knowing what is expected of you and being respectful. Many people have their own varying opinions. can you really put such labels as 'immature' and 'mature' onto people, or is there gray in between?
nawwww..i can do it. it'll only make us all stronger in the end
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i was thinking about maturity today. and i dont consider myself "immature" at all anymore. yea i do act immature at times (who doesnt?), but my overall persona/thoughts/sense of responsibility are not. i have definitely matured more over the past few months. i used to solely rely on my girl friends to make me happy when i was down or mad, but i have learned this summer how to make myself happy and content. i battled through many of my emotions alone, and w/o feeling the urge to call someone to help me out. i have realized the goals that are important to me. i have experienced many new situations that i can put into perspective. and i have learned how NOT to act in certain situations, and to be respectful when it is needed. also, the fact that one should try to see things from other peoples' perspectives.
but i have most definitely not reached the point where i would call myself "Mature". i get closer to that level, but i don't think i will ever reach that seeming finish point. what exactly does that mean anyways. am i being 'immature' when i am laughing loudly in the halls and having a blast? not to me. am i being 'mature' when i am calm and have no emotion on my face? nope. am i being 'immature' when i constantly disrupt class when the teacher is talking. yes, that is rude, and a part of what i think maturing is, is knowing what is expected of you and being respectful. Many people have their own varying opinions. can you really put such labels as 'immature' and 'mature' onto people, or is there gray in between?