Gaaahh
Ugh, I don’t even know what to think anymore.
I’ve watched someone fall into pieces at their own doing and in turn, turn against those who have been trying so hard to help them pick themselves back up. I don’t know if this person is just trying to run away from responsibility by allowing themselves (and others) to believe that they are being victimize by someone else or what. Maybe they just couldn't handle facing their mistakes and are just trying to divert attention from their real problems. I don't know. I really have no idea what's going on in their head. Who exactly do they blame for all the mess in their life? I just hope that someday this someone will soon realize how much they are hurting their family and friends. As an outsider looking in, I have done what I can to stay neutral, to be there for anyone from both sides. I have also seen how everyone has done so much for this person, how much effort they've put in to make everything right. But like they always say, you can’t help those who can’t help themselves (or at least admit they have a problem).
And it sucks too that this person would turn to people who will readily absorb their story as absolute truth without first hearing all sides of the story. And as a result, these people would pass inaccurate judgment on those who have been trying to help in the first place. Ahhh, if they only knew the whole truth. I guess there are those who just love to play victim and those love to play savior, all for the purpose of feeling good about themselves.
At this point, there really is no point anymore, so I really have nothing more to say except hope for the best for those involved and hope that things will turn out alright in the end.
I’ve watched someone fall into pieces at their own doing and in turn, turn against those who have been trying so hard to help them pick themselves back up. I don’t know if this person is just trying to run away from responsibility by allowing themselves (and others) to believe that they are being victimize by someone else or what. Maybe they just couldn't handle facing their mistakes and are just trying to divert attention from their real problems. I don't know. I really have no idea what's going on in their head. Who exactly do they blame for all the mess in their life? I just hope that someday this someone will soon realize how much they are hurting their family and friends. As an outsider looking in, I have done what I can to stay neutral, to be there for anyone from both sides. I have also seen how everyone has done so much for this person, how much effort they've put in to make everything right. But like they always say, you can’t help those who can’t help themselves (or at least admit they have a problem).
And it sucks too that this person would turn to people who will readily absorb their story as absolute truth without first hearing all sides of the story. And as a result, these people would pass inaccurate judgment on those who have been trying to help in the first place. Ahhh, if they only knew the whole truth. I guess there are those who just love to play victim and those love to play savior, all for the purpose of feeling good about themselves.
At this point, there really is no point anymore, so I really have nothing more to say except hope for the best for those involved and hope that things will turn out alright in the end.