I realized today
that I do indeed have the capacity to trust men. There are few men on this planet that have been consistent friends and whom I can count on. *wipes away a little tear* This is good news, as I plan on having them around awhile. I, too, will also do anything I can for them.
Right now I'm making moving arrangements, and the source of my anxiety pertaining to this HUGE DAY is my "friend" who offered to help. This friend has a history of flaking out on me, so I wasn't willing to accept the fact that he'd be there in the end. I ended up calling my TRUE guy friend to lament, and we came up with a game plan. He is actually helping me out financially with the move, as what I need to do will be a bit costly. I'm paying him back, of course, in installments. We've done that before.
I made the reservations and am now anxiety free. Knowing that I can count on him has released a lot of stress. This is also the buddy who is helping me paint next Monday! I do owe him some Chinese food, methinks.
I love having male friends with whom there is no physical attraction, but strictly fun. *sighs* Praise God.
BTW-Roberto is still calling me, even after our lunch date the other day. He snuck a kiss! I quickly set him in his place. Latin men can be very aggressive. However, he is sweet, just very difficult to understand over the phone. UGH!
Right now I'm making moving arrangements, and the source of my anxiety pertaining to this HUGE DAY is my "friend" who offered to help. This friend has a history of flaking out on me, so I wasn't willing to accept the fact that he'd be there in the end. I ended up calling my TRUE guy friend to lament, and we came up with a game plan. He is actually helping me out financially with the move, as what I need to do will be a bit costly. I'm paying him back, of course, in installments. We've done that before.
I made the reservations and am now anxiety free. Knowing that I can count on him has released a lot of stress. This is also the buddy who is helping me paint next Monday! I do owe him some Chinese food, methinks.
I love having male friends with whom there is no physical attraction, but strictly fun. *sighs* Praise God.
BTW-Roberto is still calling me, even after our lunch date the other day. He snuck a kiss! I quickly set him in his place. Latin men can be very aggressive. However, he is sweet, just very difficult to understand over the phone. UGH!