once again....
my lj forgot me....haha, i update this thing like once every two months, small wonder. anyways, life's good. haha, i rarely say that this time of year, but it definitely is. i don't need a valentine or a boyfriend, i'm just fine without one. haha, plus everyone else has been so depressed i spend all my energy trying to cheer them up and i don't think about anything that's bothering. surprisingly, nothing really has been bothering me. i was really pissed off at this one guy for a couple of weeks, but i'm good now. now it seems kinda stupid and trivial, but whatever. we often get upset my the little things that really don't mean anything. haha, wow, i have absolutely nothing to say here. my life is very uneventful....haha....ooo, yes, my theories of life developed tonight.
1: we are all single by choice
this theory works because, if you think about it, there's at least one person somewhere that you know that would be more than willing to date you if given the chance. however, you choose not to date them, therefore making yourself single by choice.
2: we hold on to things so tightly because we're afraid of failure
i'm not really sure about this one, but it's the most logical explanation i can think of for why people can't seem to let go of a lost cause. if we do, it means we're admiting that we've failed at getting that person back, and face it, no one wants to be considered a failure
3: we want things we can never have because we want a challenge? because we like hurting ourselves?
okay, so i haven't really developed a theory on this one, but i'm working on it. it's one of those things i just don't understand. why do we constantly put ourselves through emotional turmoil and so much pain by always striving after the things we know are so far out of reach we don't stand a chance at getting them. kinda ties back to the knowing when to let go thing. sometimes, giving up isn't a bad thing. i guess it's all in determining when we should/shouldn't give up...
1: we are all single by choice
this theory works because, if you think about it, there's at least one person somewhere that you know that would be more than willing to date you if given the chance. however, you choose not to date them, therefore making yourself single by choice.
2: we hold on to things so tightly because we're afraid of failure
i'm not really sure about this one, but it's the most logical explanation i can think of for why people can't seem to let go of a lost cause. if we do, it means we're admiting that we've failed at getting that person back, and face it, no one wants to be considered a failure
3: we want things we can never have because we want a challenge? because we like hurting ourselves?
okay, so i haven't really developed a theory on this one, but i'm working on it. it's one of those things i just don't understand. why do we constantly put ourselves through emotional turmoil and so much pain by always striving after the things we know are so far out of reach we don't stand a chance at getting them. kinda ties back to the knowing when to let go thing. sometimes, giving up isn't a bad thing. i guess it's all in determining when we should/shouldn't give up...