Call me old-fashioned, but I'd stick with the real-life boy? I don't know, it's just me. Of course, I also used to know him, so that also makes him higher in my eyes...
Do you really want to meet this guy? Have you met him before? Would meeting him make it any easier to tell him to shove off? Do you WANT him to shove off?
Fwah, I'm probably the LAST person to be giving advice about this. All I can tell you is that it's better to hurt him now, than to hurt him later after he gets even more into you. And that's from a guy's perspective.
Jeremy replies:clefbartonJanuary 21 2004, 20:25:59 UTC
Hurt him? I think just saying something like: I'm not ready for this, or I don't think I want to break up with my bf, would be better. This guy seems to be understandable.
it's irritating because i told him that i was sticking with richard. and then he immedeately twists my words. later yesterday night, he came online for like, three minutes, and in that time he told me he was thinking about me, and he was going to continue to think about me.
Alexandra says:charlesmcgeeJanuary 22 2004, 06:46:48 UTC
jeremy, i understand. i am quite the skeptic when it comes to any online relationships. he wants to meet me, but as he said before "i might try to kiss you" and i was like aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh. i don't want to hurt him or anything, but honestly i'm not really interested in him. i just need to figure out how to blow him off nicely and say 'juuuust be friends. at least for now", if that'll soften the blow. and i don't like it when he bad-mouths richard when he's never met him before. he is a very nice boy who is quite caring and sensitive methinks, but he also thinks VERY highly of himself and that was immedately one of the qualities that i dislike about him. it is so much of him that sometimes it's hard talking ot him. i really like richard, and i'm going to stick with him, i know it's what is right for me rather than risking something great for alex.
hahaha, no truer words have been spoken. i think he's quite desperate. but then that makes me feel badly about myself. so keep your comments elsewhere, jerkface!
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then theres the shallow approach, my personal favorite, go for the hot one!
sorry if I'm making light of a serious situation, but thats just the way I am
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Call me old-fashioned, but I'd stick with the real-life boy? I don't know, it's just me. Of course, I also used to know him, so that also makes him higher in my eyes...
Do you really want to meet this guy? Have you met him before? Would meeting him make it any easier to tell him to shove off? Do you WANT him to shove off?
Fwah, I'm probably the LAST person to be giving advice about this. All I can tell you is that it's better to hurt him now, than to hurt him later after he gets even more into you. And that's from a guy's perspective.
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It all depends.
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i really like richard, and i'm going to stick with him, i know it's what is right for me rather than risking something great for alex.
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