The Secret to a Happy Marriage
The secret to a happy marriage is... ;) I think I would be naive to say I know the answer to that one.
Anthony and I have been married for 2 months now and it still doesn't feel any different than when we were engaged. I don't know what is. Maybe it's due to the fact that we were living together ("living in sin" as my Mom used to put it) for about a year prior to the wedding, so there hasn't been much change. We came into the marriage already knowing how much space to give each other, tastes in interior decoration, how clean/messy we were, who pays what bills, etc. My friend was telling me that the first couple years of marriage are usually difficult for many who haven't lived together because of all the change that comes with sharing a space. For us, that wasn't the case. There seemed to be no adjustment at all. I want to feel married. When does that happen?
Anthony and I have been married for 2 months now and it still doesn't feel any different than when we were engaged. I don't know what is. Maybe it's due to the fact that we were living together ("living in sin" as my Mom used to put it) for about a year prior to the wedding, so there hasn't been much change. We came into the marriage already knowing how much space to give each other, tastes in interior decoration, how clean/messy we were, who pays what bills, etc. My friend was telling me that the first couple years of marriage are usually difficult for many who haven't lived together because of all the change that comes with sharing a space. For us, that wasn't the case. There seemed to be no adjustment at all. I want to feel married. When does that happen?