some crazy love thing...
Name Four Things That You Wish You Had:
Money, a career, love, and more time with my friends and family
Name Four Scents You Love:
Outdoors, a girls hair, good food, the beach
Name Four Things You Did Today:
Sobered up, sat on the computer, took a final, traded in books
What is your current relationship status?
Oh so single…
What is your sexual orientation?
Straight
What sort of people do you like, as far as what their interests are in life?
Someone who has a broad sense of interests, wants a family, who has ambitions and motivation
What physical traits do you look for in a potential interest?
Physical? That’s kind of hard, I guess I’d say someone who loves to smile, has nice eyes, I like a nice butt too, but I wouldn’t say I look for that, it’s just a sweet bonus.
What kind of fashion-sense attracts you?
Really just about any, but my preference would be someone who likes to dress cute and classy, but knows how to just be comfortable without being a bum.
What kind of hairstyle do you find attractive on a potential mate?
Doesn’t really matter, I like just about anything, it’s just how well it looks on her.
What is the usual age range you look at?
19 - 25 maybe a little older, but probably not… that’s already caused issues.
What traits turn you off?
Ignorance, negativity, close minded
Do you prefer to date various people or do you pretty much fall into monogamous relationships quickly?
I prefer relationships, but we don’t always have that option… so we do what we do.
Are you afraid to ask people out on dates?
Yea mostly haha.
If you're single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship?
Of course, I never really care to be single, I’m just too picky about who I date, and they’re too picky to actually date me.
What are the positive points about being single?
you don’t have to worry about hurting someone or them hurting you.
What are the negative points about being single?
You don’t get to fall in love and be cute and all that fun stuff.
When single, do you often find yourself longing for companionship?
Lol always, alllll ways.
How well do you handle rejection?
I usually don’t chase anyone enough to get rejected, but when I do, the rejection sucks, because it means I actually like them enough to chase.
Do you miss your last sweetie?
Ex? No… but there are people that I do.
Do you think it's better to look for love or let it find you?
Definitely let it find you, when you look for it, you wind up rushing things, and forcing them, and that just doesn’t help matters.
What's the longest relationship you've ever been in?
2 years, and one for 1 and a half years.
The shortest?
That I count… 3 months.
Do you think couples should spend a very large amount of time together or space things out a tad?
I don’t think it matters much, they need to find their niche, me personally, I usually prefer spending a lot of time together because at some point I want to spend the rest of my life with her, so we need to make sure we don’t hate eachother.
Have you ever found yourself worrying about commitment?
Not when I’m with a girl I know I want to be with.
When involved with a person, do you try to think about the here and now or do you often think of the future?
Mostly today, cause I live for today, cause tomorrow is never certain, but at the same time, I like thinking about the possibilities of the future.
How do you prefer to handle disagreements?
I’m very vocal about things. So I prefer to talk about them before they become a real issue.
How do you feel when your mate is mad at you and won't tell you why?
It’s upsetting cause I can’t fix whatever I’ve done without being told, if I could guess it, then the problem would already be solved.
Do you have a crush right now? Do they know?
Eh, I do, technically I have more than one, but nothing is currently actually happening, timing just isn’t right. Welcome to my life.
What's the longest period of time you've ever had a crush?
If I’ve ever liked someone, I liked them because of the person they are, so I’d say I’ve always had those feelings, it’s just a matter of what I want most, and who I care about most.
Have you ever confessed your feelings to a crush?
Ever, hah, I seem to always do it… I suck.
Do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush?
No I’m usually pretty quiet about shit like that.
Has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you?
oh yeah.
How do you feel about long-distance relationships?
Im not really a big fan, I don’t mind making the commute, but I’m a fan of seeing the girl I’m dating.
Have you ever pined for someone when you're not around them?
Of course
Would you get involved with someone if they had a child already?
Ouch, almost definitely not, because they’re in a different position in life than I am.
What would you do if you got pregnant while in a relationship?
Well if I got a girl pregnant, I’d do my job, but getting married, it’s has to be right, so if it’s not, there’s no marriage.
Would you get involved with someone if they were previously married?
Possibly, again, it all depends on the situation.
How big of an issue is religion to your compatibility?
None at all, i’ve been there, and I really don’t mind what religion my children are.
How big of an issue to you is your mate's ethnicity?
None at all. Not to me, and that’s all that matters.
In a potential mate, how important is intelligence to you?
Extremely, my rule is she has to be smarter than me. I’d rather learn from her, than have to teach her. I can’t stand stupidity, especially when it’s real.
In a potential mate, how important is a sense of humor to you?
Extremely, she has to laugh and know how to make me laugh.
What makes your heart flutter and brings a big cheesy smile to your face?
When I decide to actually open my heart to someone. It’s happened recently, but doesn’t seem to be going anyplace.
What was your first kiss like?
It was late, I was leaving the girl I was datings house, and we were on a little mini hill looking up at the moon and the stars. It was pretty cute.
What part of a person's body do you find most attractive?
Booty, stomach, thighs, that whole little right up in there area.
What's the first thing you look at when you look at someone you're attracted to?
Eyes and smile
How important are the looks of a mate's face to you?
As long as their smile makes me smile, I’m happy.
How important are the looks of a mate's body to you?
Not that important.
When you kiss someone for the first time, is it usually you who initiates it or the other?
Probably me, though I don’t know where I get the balls, cause I’m always afraid of being rejected.
Have you ever casually made out with someone who you weren't seriously involved with?
Is this really a question? Yea I most definitely have, you have to have fun before you start getting serious.
Were you single at the time?
Whoa, I don’t do that stuff, I wouldn’t ever cheat on a girl.
What are your ticklish areas?
Just about anyplace you touch me.
What do you most like about making out?
Being passionate haha.
Are you a virgin?
No I’m not.
If not, would you consider your first time to have been a good one?
Yea I probably don’t think it could have been better.
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Few weeks from 20.
Have you ever had sex with someone you loved?
Absolutely.
Have you ever turned down an offer for sex?
Yea a good amount of times.
How much do you think sex changes a relationship?
It changes it a lot, it’s gotta be balanced, and if you have sex too early I think it can really ruin things.
How do you feel about casual sex?
Not preferred, but it happens, but I have to at least care about the girl.
Would you stay with a lover if the love stopped but the sex was still enjoyable?
I’d say no now, but honestly, if the time came… possibly?
Would you stay with a lover if the sex stopped/got boring but there was still love?
I would, but it wouldn’t be a pretty relationship.. .haha
Do you believe in love?
Absolutely, look who your asking.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Not at all, your eyes don’t fall in love, she has to speak, and I need to know who she is inside before love can happen.
Has someone ever told you they loved you?
Yes, do I believe it, not always.
Have you ever told someone you loved them and meant it?
Of course, I always mean it.
Have you ever told someone you loved them and not meant it?
Lol, actually, once I said it on accident, as fucking stupid as that sounds.
Are you a monogamous person or do you believe in open-ended relationships?
Monogamous, it’s me and you baby, no one else matters… I love you, not you and whomever else will sleep with me.
Have you ever been married?
Hell no, I need to find a girl first.
How do you feel about marriage?
I’m looking forward to it, but again, we need to find that girl first.
If you're currently not married, do you foresee yourself ever tying the knot?
absolutely
Do you plan on having children someday?
Most definitely, I love kids, I need to have them.
Have you ever had your heart broken?
Oh hell yeah. Life baby.
Have you ever been dumped?
Indeed I have.
Have you ever dumped someone?
Yeah, not exactly my happiest moment, actually it might have been, she was too stupid to tolerate.
Have you ever mutually broken up with someone?
Every important time, things just could have been better.
Has a romantic companion ever made you cry?
Oh yeah, too many times.
Have you ever made a romantic companion cry?
I suck for it, yes.
Have you ever had an emotional pain so bad it made you sick or physically hurt?
I don’t know about that, but I guess a little bit.
Have you ever been unfaithful?
Nope that’s not my deal, I don’t do that.
Have you ever been cheated on?
Not that I know of, hopefully not.
Have you ever learned an important lesson as a result of a break up?
Of course. You can’t take things out on your girl just because you think she’ll always be there, you have to appreciate her always.
Have you ever gotten back together with someone after breaking up?
Yea, good times, I was actually just thinking about one of those times.
Did it work?
She did it, we got back together. We aren’t together anymore now though.
Do you believe there's hope for people after they get back together or do you think the same problems that caused the initial break up will resurface?
Na there’s always hope, just have to make it happen baby.
Have you ever broken up with someone and remained friends afterward?
Ashlee most, dana still friends, just not as close.
Have you ever broken up with someone and become bitter enemies?
She’s a pain in the ass too, supposedly older means more mature, I think not.
If so, did you ever make amends?
Nope.
Have you ever broken up with someone and lost touch?
Yea, but none of those girls count, I was too young.
Have you ever gotten back in touch with an old flame after a time of more than 3 months of no communication?
Most defintely
Were you afraid to do so?
Somewhat, but I couldn’t not have her in my life at all, she’s been too important of a part of my life in the past.
Do you ever check up on old flames without actually contacting them?
Na not worth it. No need to dwell on the past like that.
If you've ever lost touch or went sour with someone you loved, how did it make you feel?
It blows bad. But again, it’s life.
Have you ever longed to get back together with someone?
Yea sometimes, who really knows what the future holds though.
Money, a career, love, and more time with my friends and family
Name Four Scents You Love:
Outdoors, a girls hair, good food, the beach
Name Four Things You Did Today:
Sobered up, sat on the computer, took a final, traded in books
What is your current relationship status?
Oh so single…
What is your sexual orientation?
Straight
What sort of people do you like, as far as what their interests are in life?
Someone who has a broad sense of interests, wants a family, who has ambitions and motivation
What physical traits do you look for in a potential interest?
Physical? That’s kind of hard, I guess I’d say someone who loves to smile, has nice eyes, I like a nice butt too, but I wouldn’t say I look for that, it’s just a sweet bonus.
What kind of fashion-sense attracts you?
Really just about any, but my preference would be someone who likes to dress cute and classy, but knows how to just be comfortable without being a bum.
What kind of hairstyle do you find attractive on a potential mate?
Doesn’t really matter, I like just about anything, it’s just how well it looks on her.
What is the usual age range you look at?
19 - 25 maybe a little older, but probably not… that’s already caused issues.
What traits turn you off?
Ignorance, negativity, close minded
Do you prefer to date various people or do you pretty much fall into monogamous relationships quickly?
I prefer relationships, but we don’t always have that option… so we do what we do.
Are you afraid to ask people out on dates?
Yea mostly haha.
If you're single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship?
Of course, I never really care to be single, I’m just too picky about who I date, and they’re too picky to actually date me.
What are the positive points about being single?
you don’t have to worry about hurting someone or them hurting you.
What are the negative points about being single?
You don’t get to fall in love and be cute and all that fun stuff.
When single, do you often find yourself longing for companionship?
Lol always, alllll ways.
How well do you handle rejection?
I usually don’t chase anyone enough to get rejected, but when I do, the rejection sucks, because it means I actually like them enough to chase.
Do you miss your last sweetie?
Ex? No… but there are people that I do.
Do you think it's better to look for love or let it find you?
Definitely let it find you, when you look for it, you wind up rushing things, and forcing them, and that just doesn’t help matters.
What's the longest relationship you've ever been in?
2 years, and one for 1 and a half years.
The shortest?
That I count… 3 months.
Do you think couples should spend a very large amount of time together or space things out a tad?
I don’t think it matters much, they need to find their niche, me personally, I usually prefer spending a lot of time together because at some point I want to spend the rest of my life with her, so we need to make sure we don’t hate eachother.
Have you ever found yourself worrying about commitment?
Not when I’m with a girl I know I want to be with.
When involved with a person, do you try to think about the here and now or do you often think of the future?
Mostly today, cause I live for today, cause tomorrow is never certain, but at the same time, I like thinking about the possibilities of the future.
How do you prefer to handle disagreements?
I’m very vocal about things. So I prefer to talk about them before they become a real issue.
How do you feel when your mate is mad at you and won't tell you why?
It’s upsetting cause I can’t fix whatever I’ve done without being told, if I could guess it, then the problem would already be solved.
Do you have a crush right now? Do they know?
Eh, I do, technically I have more than one, but nothing is currently actually happening, timing just isn’t right. Welcome to my life.
What's the longest period of time you've ever had a crush?
If I’ve ever liked someone, I liked them because of the person they are, so I’d say I’ve always had those feelings, it’s just a matter of what I want most, and who I care about most.
Have you ever confessed your feelings to a crush?
Ever, hah, I seem to always do it… I suck.
Do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush?
No I’m usually pretty quiet about shit like that.
Has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you?
oh yeah.
How do you feel about long-distance relationships?
Im not really a big fan, I don’t mind making the commute, but I’m a fan of seeing the girl I’m dating.
Have you ever pined for someone when you're not around them?
Of course
Would you get involved with someone if they had a child already?
Ouch, almost definitely not, because they’re in a different position in life than I am.
What would you do if you got pregnant while in a relationship?
Well if I got a girl pregnant, I’d do my job, but getting married, it’s has to be right, so if it’s not, there’s no marriage.
Would you get involved with someone if they were previously married?
Possibly, again, it all depends on the situation.
How big of an issue is religion to your compatibility?
None at all, i’ve been there, and I really don’t mind what religion my children are.
How big of an issue to you is your mate's ethnicity?
None at all. Not to me, and that’s all that matters.
In a potential mate, how important is intelligence to you?
Extremely, my rule is she has to be smarter than me. I’d rather learn from her, than have to teach her. I can’t stand stupidity, especially when it’s real.
In a potential mate, how important is a sense of humor to you?
Extremely, she has to laugh and know how to make me laugh.
What makes your heart flutter and brings a big cheesy smile to your face?
When I decide to actually open my heart to someone. It’s happened recently, but doesn’t seem to be going anyplace.
What was your first kiss like?
It was late, I was leaving the girl I was datings house, and we were on a little mini hill looking up at the moon and the stars. It was pretty cute.
What part of a person's body do you find most attractive?
Booty, stomach, thighs, that whole little right up in there area.
What's the first thing you look at when you look at someone you're attracted to?
Eyes and smile
How important are the looks of a mate's face to you?
As long as their smile makes me smile, I’m happy.
How important are the looks of a mate's body to you?
Not that important.
When you kiss someone for the first time, is it usually you who initiates it or the other?
Probably me, though I don’t know where I get the balls, cause I’m always afraid of being rejected.
Have you ever casually made out with someone who you weren't seriously involved with?
Is this really a question? Yea I most definitely have, you have to have fun before you start getting serious.
Were you single at the time?
Whoa, I don’t do that stuff, I wouldn’t ever cheat on a girl.
What are your ticklish areas?
Just about anyplace you touch me.
What do you most like about making out?
Being passionate haha.
Are you a virgin?
No I’m not.
If not, would you consider your first time to have been a good one?
Yea I probably don’t think it could have been better.
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Few weeks from 20.
Have you ever had sex with someone you loved?
Absolutely.
Have you ever turned down an offer for sex?
Yea a good amount of times.
How much do you think sex changes a relationship?
It changes it a lot, it’s gotta be balanced, and if you have sex too early I think it can really ruin things.
How do you feel about casual sex?
Not preferred, but it happens, but I have to at least care about the girl.
Would you stay with a lover if the love stopped but the sex was still enjoyable?
I’d say no now, but honestly, if the time came… possibly?
Would you stay with a lover if the sex stopped/got boring but there was still love?
I would, but it wouldn’t be a pretty relationship.. .haha
Do you believe in love?
Absolutely, look who your asking.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Not at all, your eyes don’t fall in love, she has to speak, and I need to know who she is inside before love can happen.
Has someone ever told you they loved you?
Yes, do I believe it, not always.
Have you ever told someone you loved them and meant it?
Of course, I always mean it.
Have you ever told someone you loved them and not meant it?
Lol, actually, once I said it on accident, as fucking stupid as that sounds.
Are you a monogamous person or do you believe in open-ended relationships?
Monogamous, it’s me and you baby, no one else matters… I love you, not you and whomever else will sleep with me.
Have you ever been married?
Hell no, I need to find a girl first.
How do you feel about marriage?
I’m looking forward to it, but again, we need to find that girl first.
If you're currently not married, do you foresee yourself ever tying the knot?
absolutely
Do you plan on having children someday?
Most definitely, I love kids, I need to have them.
Have you ever had your heart broken?
Oh hell yeah. Life baby.
Have you ever been dumped?
Indeed I have.
Have you ever dumped someone?
Yeah, not exactly my happiest moment, actually it might have been, she was too stupid to tolerate.
Have you ever mutually broken up with someone?
Every important time, things just could have been better.
Has a romantic companion ever made you cry?
Oh yeah, too many times.
Have you ever made a romantic companion cry?
I suck for it, yes.
Have you ever had an emotional pain so bad it made you sick or physically hurt?
I don’t know about that, but I guess a little bit.
Have you ever been unfaithful?
Nope that’s not my deal, I don’t do that.
Have you ever been cheated on?
Not that I know of, hopefully not.
Have you ever learned an important lesson as a result of a break up?
Of course. You can’t take things out on your girl just because you think she’ll always be there, you have to appreciate her always.
Have you ever gotten back together with someone after breaking up?
Yea, good times, I was actually just thinking about one of those times.
Did it work?
She did it, we got back together. We aren’t together anymore now though.
Do you believe there's hope for people after they get back together or do you think the same problems that caused the initial break up will resurface?
Na there’s always hope, just have to make it happen baby.
Have you ever broken up with someone and remained friends afterward?
Ashlee most, dana still friends, just not as close.
Have you ever broken up with someone and become bitter enemies?
She’s a pain in the ass too, supposedly older means more mature, I think not.
If so, did you ever make amends?
Nope.
Have you ever broken up with someone and lost touch?
Yea, but none of those girls count, I was too young.
Have you ever gotten back in touch with an old flame after a time of more than 3 months of no communication?
Most defintely
Were you afraid to do so?
Somewhat, but I couldn’t not have her in my life at all, she’s been too important of a part of my life in the past.
Do you ever check up on old flames without actually contacting them?
Na not worth it. No need to dwell on the past like that.
If you've ever lost touch or went sour with someone you loved, how did it make you feel?
It blows bad. But again, it’s life.
Have you ever longed to get back together with someone?
Yea sometimes, who really knows what the future holds though.