Apr 11, 2005 22:54
I have a simple honest question. Why do women like assholes?
I don't understand it at all.
Maybe if I were an asshole I wouldn't have the problems I do.
Ehhh.. I don't think I could live with my self like that.
Ohh well..
I guess i'm shit out of luck then.
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Maybe on one hand because you think you care about them enough.. and they'll realize that and they'll stop being assholes.
And maybe because you like the *idea* of them (not necessarily who they are, but who you see them as) so much that the fact that they're an asshole every once in a while doesn't really make sense, and so you reject reality.
And, my favorite excuse and the one I think makes sense most of the time since guys can be so perfect at one point and so viciously evil at others, the possibility that they're experiencing some weird kind of split personality disorder (dissociative identity, to be up to date with the DSM) in which they're sometimes an asshole and sometimes a blessing.
Or, really, all at once.
And then.. another possibility.. that you like the fact that they're *real* with you and don't suppress their darker side just to keep everything peaches and cream-style sweet. Though I think this excuse only *really* works .0001% of the time.
That'll be two cents, please.
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