Jul 03, 2006 19:57
It seems I have wound up with many children. Oo;
But onto the more logical side of this post...
I've noticed soemthing about many romantic relationships, especially those ones create during the age before full adulthood.
People spend time together, becoming close friends, spending time and having great fun. Eventually, there might come a time when they decide to be in a relationship.
And so, they celebrate, and are close, and snuggly, and wanting to be together.
But... somehow, in there, they stop doing the things they did as friends. They snuggle, they hold close. They don't play video games together, hang out, they're there to be "together." But not together, you know? They're too busy being the boyfriend or girlfriend, they forget that they're friends to.
In soem cases, they can even forget how to do the things they used to do.
In my mind, i can't help but question, "How can someone be romanticly involved if they can't be friends anymore?"
I feel it's important to remember to maintain friendship while being in a relationhsip, and to maintain the friendships outside of the relationship.
People looking from outside may think then that the relationship isn't as close, but if they can remember how to have good old fashionned fun, I feel that draws them far closer than any "fun" ever could.
So I feel. Who knows if it's true.