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Here's the deal. I just deleted 11 friends. Some of them whom just don't use their LJ anymore or have a new username or whatnot. Some of them are those that I feel really have no business knowing what I think and feel about things or what's going on in my life. I thought that just making friends filters would be deceptive like "I know you think you're my friend but I'm hiding things from you." So that's that. If things change in the future, then hip hip hurray and I'll add you back. But right now I feel a lot better just having it like this.
&edit a lot of days later. FYI this doesn't mean I'm writing mean things about you if I deleted you. (I just realized that that's what I automatically think when I see that someone's deleted me or purposely won't add me to their friends list.) I'm writing exactly the same way as I always have. I don't want anyone to unjustifiably (sp?) think I'm talking about them.