Jun 20, 2006 16:32
I am considering donating some of my eggs to a family in the south bay. BIG BIG decision. I feel like it is okay to do. I'm just not sharing it personally with many people because opinionated people feel like they need to take it upon themselves to tell me what they think about it. (MYYYYY decision) I think it is really good to help a mother who feels like she failed because she doesnt have a family. I hope one day when I am ready to have children, some young nice woman would be willing to do that for me if I can't have them. The couples go through a 2 hour psychiatric evaluation (as do I) and answer a really long questionaire about themselves for clinics to decide whether they are fit to parent children. I figure if I do this, and fertilization takes, then that particular couple is meant to have children from me. Besides, I'm not planning on having children for a while anyway. The spirit and soul of their baby will be the one that they are meant to have, and mine will wait. Just like with an abortion. The baby's spirit will wait. E made me feel so much better about it too.. he made me feel like it didn't matter if I am unable to have kids later, that there are plenty of children in the world that need a loving home. That made me feel great.