joke for zozo:
Maxim's Dutch cousin, Hazan, spent two weeks with me.
I am Jesus.
yay!
I think it is a childish call for attention to manifest emotional pain into physical pain, so all you cutters just might as well read some Freud or go get psychoanalyzed because you have either:
a) infantile tendencies, or
b) a feeling that not enough people pay attention to you, which could have developed from either:
a) lack of parental attention, or
b) desertion of some kind (by a friend, by a parent through divorce, through a loved one's death, etc.)
You need to make peace with your problems. If your problem is desertion or a lack of parental attention, talk to the "offender" or write them a note if they won't listen to you, or if they tear that up, ask them to go to group counseling with you. If your problem is infantile tendencies, I recommend a reality check, such as going to a shrinkydink or talking with an understanding adult who will tell you honestly that "You're acting like a little kid, and people won't cater to your whims forever, so wise up, stop cheating on Vocab and work towards some goals" or something like that.
is it socially acceptable to ask people out over lj?