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Why is it such human nature to want the people who are not interested in you and dislike the people who are?
Had a date like that the other night. I thought it went well? He texted and said 'had a nice time meeting you, and think you're really cool.' but didn't think we'd be a great match.
It's like a rush of shame of being undesirable to somebody who you were attracted too.
I'm still processing. And of course reading into it. Like wtf does that mean. Am I not pretty enough? Am I not his type? What is his type? What did I do wrong? WHY DOESN'T HE LIKE ME?
Not that I disagree with his assessment that we wouldn't make a good match... It was like there was potential for chemistry but no spark? We don't have common interests but I thought we had common values...
I certainly appreciate him being up front. Just...bummed. And now missing Stewart again.
Had a date like that the other night. I thought it went well? He texted and said 'had a nice time meeting you, and think you're really cool.' but didn't think we'd be a great match.
It's like a rush of shame of being undesirable to somebody who you were attracted too.
I'm still processing. And of course reading into it. Like wtf does that mean. Am I not pretty enough? Am I not his type? What is his type? What did I do wrong? WHY DOESN'T HE LIKE ME?
Not that I disagree with his assessment that we wouldn't make a good match... It was like there was potential for chemistry but no spark? We don't have common interests but I thought we had common values...
I certainly appreciate him being up front. Just...bummed. And now missing Stewart again.