You Don't Redact a Document Unless You Have Something To Hide.
You know that moment when...
I just got told I don't know how to set boundaries, and yet... the self same people push my boundaries all the time, when I make it clear by my silence that I don't know how, or don't want to answer a particular question, well... yeah, that's the definition of irony.
They say that you should always go with your gut. I always fight mine as long as possible, but it always finds a way to come and bite me on the arse in the end. There have been two occasions of late where my gut has said to me, "this person is lying" or "this person has something they're ashamed of." I've known both times that it didn't sit right. I mean... mental health organisations /don't/ tell people who are in such a bad way as all that to get put on a waiting list for counselling and to read below to make sure that counselling is the right thing for them, nope, they make sure you get seen right away, so... either the person wasn't completely frank in their conversation with the organization when they called, or they're not being frank with /me/ now, and I'm not sure which is most worrying. Either way, I'm half way across the bridge, and the charges are set. Once I reach the other side...
Yeah, don't mind me. It's Thursday.
I just got told I don't know how to set boundaries, and yet... the self same people push my boundaries all the time, when I make it clear by my silence that I don't know how, or don't want to answer a particular question, well... yeah, that's the definition of irony.
They say that you should always go with your gut. I always fight mine as long as possible, but it always finds a way to come and bite me on the arse in the end. There have been two occasions of late where my gut has said to me, "this person is lying" or "this person has something they're ashamed of." I've known both times that it didn't sit right. I mean... mental health organisations /don't/ tell people who are in such a bad way as all that to get put on a waiting list for counselling and to read below to make sure that counselling is the right thing for them, nope, they make sure you get seen right away, so... either the person wasn't completely frank in their conversation with the organization when they called, or they're not being frank with /me/ now, and I'm not sure which is most worrying. Either way, I'm half way across the bridge, and the charges are set. Once I reach the other side...
Yeah, don't mind me. It's Thursday.