In search of...?

[cathawk]

Sometimes it seems like I spend my life in search of the perfect:

task management software (or binder, when I was into paper and pencil), to keep me on top of my work

system for organizing my closet or ________ (insert other space management monsters, e.g., desk)

piece of furniture to store things

briefcase: light, that will carry my computer & everything else I need while not hurting my shoulder/neck/back

handbag: see description for briefcase, minus the computer, but must be smaller

calendar system, to keep my schedule under control

book on organizing your life that will teach me all the secret strategies

____________________ insert whatever else fits

Of course, the perfect ______ doesn't exist, because I'm searching for something that doesn't quite exist. While there are things/choices that can make a difference, what I've discovered over the years is that by now in my life I usually know the system or the strategies. And I know that there are always trade offs: when one says yes to one thing one is often saying no to something else. You can only fit so much in a handbag, briefcase, schedule, task list, day, life.

Instead, I need to remind myself (it seems continually these days) that the key is to make sure I'm prioritizing the important things. And accepting that there's a certain amount of manageability to most things--it's all about riding the wave, not trying to control every drop of water.