One thing
The amount of stress and hassle trying to sort my life out, kind of supercedes any potential online drama or "he said, she said" crap.
All my energy is put into my own life and all the things that need my attention. That does not mean I am not interested in people or their opinions etc, or that I am playing devil's advocate or anything.
It just means (selfishly) that *my* life and what is happening in it is more important than people flaming each other.
I really can't be arsed being involved in the whole socio-political side of LJ and the judgements thereof.
All I ever want around me is peace and harmony as I hate it when people I know, don't get on with each other, or have issues, that in the grand scheme are not as important as what they seem (even though I am not belittling the feelings as they can be quite powerful), but if something bad happened to the person you are currently having issues with, wouldn't all the "issues" just disappear and you would want to be there for them?
I just want everyone to get on with each other and if you want to take me off your flist for potentially being involved in something that a) has no interest to me and b) I have enough hassle and drama in my life right now without added online drama, then so be it.
I really cannot be bothered playing school ground games and trying to be friends all round if it isn't appreciated. I'm not being snotty or nasty, I'm just absolutely mentally and emotionally worn out and this is just something else that drains me.
Summary: I just want all my friends on my flist to get on with each other and get over whatever is stopping that from happening. I can't deal with it and don't particularly want to anymore. I just want things to be pleasant and friendly for the sake of my internet sanity.
ps. Not trying to offend. I just have had enough in all area's of my life right now.
All my energy is put into my own life and all the things that need my attention. That does not mean I am not interested in people or their opinions etc, or that I am playing devil's advocate or anything.
It just means (selfishly) that *my* life and what is happening in it is more important than people flaming each other.
I really can't be arsed being involved in the whole socio-political side of LJ and the judgements thereof.
All I ever want around me is peace and harmony as I hate it when people I know, don't get on with each other, or have issues, that in the grand scheme are not as important as what they seem (even though I am not belittling the feelings as they can be quite powerful), but if something bad happened to the person you are currently having issues with, wouldn't all the "issues" just disappear and you would want to be there for them?
I just want everyone to get on with each other and if you want to take me off your flist for potentially being involved in something that a) has no interest to me and b) I have enough hassle and drama in my life right now without added online drama, then so be it.
I really cannot be bothered playing school ground games and trying to be friends all round if it isn't appreciated. I'm not being snotty or nasty, I'm just absolutely mentally and emotionally worn out and this is just something else that drains me.
Summary: I just want all my friends on my flist to get on with each other and get over whatever is stopping that from happening. I can't deal with it and don't particularly want to anymore. I just want things to be pleasant and friendly for the sake of my internet sanity.
ps. Not trying to offend. I just have had enough in all area's of my life right now.