Continuation to the last post...
So... against my better judgment I sent him a text. I was curious, and didn't like how things ended. And... here is the result.
ME: Just wondering how you are going. and if you wanted to talk
HIM: I am doing good. Been busy how about you
ME: eh, been better. Body hates me. Had a good weekend though. Possibly a snow day tomorrow. What have you been up to then? Anything good I hope?
HIM: Job Searching and dealing with the V.A.
ME: Any luck with either?
HIM: Not really
ME: Sorry. So... what happened exactly?
HIM: With the V.A.
ME: I mean more in general. You blocked me on FB and haven't spoken to me in over a week...
HIM: You upset me I needed to cool off
ME: Have you cooled off then? And do you know why I got upset?
HIM: Because you liked me and was told i have a girlfriend. and had nothing to go on.
ME: Yes. So are you telling me someone else sent that text then?
HIM: I told you I dunno how many times my phone got taken away from me. But yes i do have a girlfriend now
ME: ...oh. Whats up with that then?
HIM: Well I had a close friend and things worked out that way. She was dating someone and i was her best friend. they broke up now we are together
ME: ...yet a week ago you couldn't even consider one. Sigh. I don't get you Ken. I really, really don't.
HIM: Who does
ME: So it was just me you didn't want then I take it.
HIM: I wasn't considering one. Then well it happens
ME: I just don't get that. I am going for a run
HIM: TTYL then
ME: Maybe
HIM: yup truth be told I am happy. And I had wanted you then you constantly guilt tripped me. what happened shouldnt have happened. But I am done. I am happy so be it
ME: I didn't guilt trip you Ken.
HIM: Doesn't matter now. You had upset me. And I found someone. I am happy end of story.
Ok... so... basically that answered nothing. Yes, your phone was "taken". Why would someone send me a text saying you'd be with your gf? Generally, a text from YOUR PHONE is something to go on. And... I did notice that all that was said was my phone was taken. Not that he didn't send it. That isn't an answer. But I let that pass. Then admission of gf... Right... I wanted to say more to him. It pissed me off. Honestly... the whole thing made me feel used. But I for once held my tongue, because I would have gotten even more pissed off. I went for a run and it finally sunk in just how much of an ass that guy is. I still feel hurt... but I think now I am just more angry. He seems to care for no one besides himself, skews shit to how he wants it, and didn't care who got hurt in the process. I could be viscous here... but I won't. At least I know this now, and its just another lesson that maybe I should listen to friends when they tell me to be careful. I finally realized he just isn't worth it.
ME: Just wondering how you are going. and if you wanted to talk
HIM: I am doing good. Been busy how about you
ME: eh, been better. Body hates me. Had a good weekend though. Possibly a snow day tomorrow. What have you been up to then? Anything good I hope?
HIM: Job Searching and dealing with the V.A.
ME: Any luck with either?
HIM: Not really
ME: Sorry. So... what happened exactly?
HIM: With the V.A.
ME: I mean more in general. You blocked me on FB and haven't spoken to me in over a week...
HIM: You upset me I needed to cool off
ME: Have you cooled off then? And do you know why I got upset?
HIM: Because you liked me and was told i have a girlfriend. and had nothing to go on.
ME: Yes. So are you telling me someone else sent that text then?
HIM: I told you I dunno how many times my phone got taken away from me. But yes i do have a girlfriend now
ME: ...oh. Whats up with that then?
HIM: Well I had a close friend and things worked out that way. She was dating someone and i was her best friend. they broke up now we are together
ME: ...yet a week ago you couldn't even consider one. Sigh. I don't get you Ken. I really, really don't.
HIM: Who does
ME: So it was just me you didn't want then I take it.
HIM: I wasn't considering one. Then well it happens
ME: I just don't get that. I am going for a run
HIM: TTYL then
ME: Maybe
HIM: yup truth be told I am happy. And I had wanted you then you constantly guilt tripped me. what happened shouldnt have happened. But I am done. I am happy so be it
ME: I didn't guilt trip you Ken.
HIM: Doesn't matter now. You had upset me. And I found someone. I am happy end of story.
Ok... so... basically that answered nothing. Yes, your phone was "taken". Why would someone send me a text saying you'd be with your gf? Generally, a text from YOUR PHONE is something to go on. And... I did notice that all that was said was my phone was taken. Not that he didn't send it. That isn't an answer. But I let that pass. Then admission of gf... Right... I wanted to say more to him. It pissed me off. Honestly... the whole thing made me feel used. But I for once held my tongue, because I would have gotten even more pissed off. I went for a run and it finally sunk in just how much of an ass that guy is. I still feel hurt... but I think now I am just more angry. He seems to care for no one besides himself, skews shit to how he wants it, and didn't care who got hurt in the process. I could be viscous here... but I won't. At least I know this now, and its just another lesson that maybe I should listen to friends when they tell me to be careful. I finally realized he just isn't worth it.