This is my 10
So I read a friend's post about being attractive to men and other relationship issues and it made me think. Woman always feel the need to fit the description of what men want. But men don't seem to be as obsessed with meeting our desires. It's a media, societal thing I'm sure. But it's still crap. So I decided to make my own list of my ideal guy. I don't need any of the superficial traits to go out with a guy but it is a bonus when they do. I'm sure I have more but my brain is not functioning the way I want it to.
My Ideal Guy
- Blue eyes This is just a preference. Blue eyes draw me in.
- Strong & toned I don't like super muscular guys. I certainly don’t need a body builder.
- Non-smoker I'd rather not spend time nagging my s/o to quit smoking.
- Ambition & goals This one can be a deal breaker. If a guy is not willing to work for his future and doesn't have goals, he certainly won't have any for a life with me.
- Takes care of me I love being the "girl" in a relationship. If you're not willing to woo me, just forget it. I also enjoy taking care of my s/o.
- Loyal This one is a given but I would be a psycho if I found out someone cheated on me or was just not treating me how I feel I should be treated. I can be a great girlfriend and I can be the psycho girlfriend.
- Chivalrous but isn’t stubborn about it. I love when a guy holds the door or pays for the date. If I insist on helping to pay or something, he should let me chip in. I want to be treated with respect as a woman, not someone who is incapable.