fucking bad news
i just learnt some fucking bad news from a friend in the UK. That plus the other bad news i had last month from a friend in the US of A, that's starting to sum up, and that suuuucks.
between 2000 and 2006 i used to chat with a girl from the UK. We're the same age, and i was reading her journal on a site called Diaryland, then hre on LJ. In fact, i moved on LJ so that i could continue to follow her journal here. She was cute and very clever. We used to have long conversations full of wit and sarcasm. She was a really pleasant friend to chat with, cause she'd always correct my grammar when i was mistaken.
i never actualy met her. I had the occasion once, when i went to London with Kumiko in 2004, but i didn't cause i thought Kumiko might be jealous. No reason to be, but it was better that way.
Anyway, in 2006 her journal were closed and her mail adress didn't work anymore, and i couldn't get in touch with her anyhow. Untill 5 days ago, when i finally found her back on facebook.
I wrote her a mail, and it turns out in 2006 she had a car crash. Now she's in wheelchair, and suffuer from TBI. She has difficulties to speak and write. Half her face is kind paralyised. I've seen her photos, she's like 20 years older now. She used to be very clever, now she makes 3 word sentences and they all end with an exclamation mark. I have no problem with that of course, i'm her friend and will support her as i can... but it's so sad. Life's really a bitch. She was about to become a doctor 5 month after her accident. Now it seems she has the capacities of a 10 years old.
it's terrible how a personality can change because of an accident... I keep wondering : is she still as sharp as she was before inside, but can't express it ? Or did she really lose her abilities ?
And now i must go and fetch Kumiko at the hotel, cause a mad custumer hit her on the head or something. FUCKING NIGHT !
between 2000 and 2006 i used to chat with a girl from the UK. We're the same age, and i was reading her journal on a site called Diaryland, then hre on LJ. In fact, i moved on LJ so that i could continue to follow her journal here. She was cute and very clever. We used to have long conversations full of wit and sarcasm. She was a really pleasant friend to chat with, cause she'd always correct my grammar when i was mistaken.
i never actualy met her. I had the occasion once, when i went to London with Kumiko in 2004, but i didn't cause i thought Kumiko might be jealous. No reason to be, but it was better that way.
Anyway, in 2006 her journal were closed and her mail adress didn't work anymore, and i couldn't get in touch with her anyhow. Untill 5 days ago, when i finally found her back on facebook.
I wrote her a mail, and it turns out in 2006 she had a car crash. Now she's in wheelchair, and suffuer from TBI. She has difficulties to speak and write. Half her face is kind paralyised. I've seen her photos, she's like 20 years older now. She used to be very clever, now she makes 3 word sentences and they all end with an exclamation mark. I have no problem with that of course, i'm her friend and will support her as i can... but it's so sad. Life's really a bitch. She was about to become a doctor 5 month after her accident. Now it seems she has the capacities of a 10 years old.
it's terrible how a personality can change because of an accident... I keep wondering : is she still as sharp as she was before inside, but can't express it ? Or did she really lose her abilities ?
And now i must go and fetch Kumiko at the hotel, cause a mad custumer hit her on the head or something. FUCKING NIGHT !