I figured it out.
Girls always tell me one of three things.
1) I have a boyfriend, but you're a great guy and will make a girl happy.
2) I don't want a boyfriend, but you're a great guy and will make a girl happy.
3) You're a friend so I don't want to date you, but you're a great guy and will make a girl happy.
Answers:
1) If it's true, good. I don't like people who cheat.
2) Lie.
3) Lie.
I can think of two females in my life now that I wouldn't date because I like having them as a friend more. (I'm excluding family, you sick fucks) Both of which read this and should know who they are.
I'm sick of being that nice guy girls think they should open up to. The two aforementioned chicks are fine, because I've known them for years and can probably be helpful above being a male figure they can spill their guts to. I like being helpful, but enough is enough. It's been a while since I've actually opened up to somebody I've listened to and cared about, and had them accept me. I've almost completely stopped opening up, and I know it's a problem. It's to the point with a certain person (yeah, you) that I want to figure out how they can attach themself so fully while I can detach myself from everything I hold dear in the blink of an eye. It's not about my opinion on what should be done, or the hard facts of the situation, but I want to know how and why the human brain can have such polar opposite processes about a general situation.
But just like that situation I keep seeing, I'll never make my move away from the ruts I'm in. I'll be like this until something changes me. It's not about willpower, if I was adequately motivated, I would stop... but it's just one of the returnless pastimes I do to fill the gape.
1) I have a boyfriend, but you're a great guy and will make a girl happy.
2) I don't want a boyfriend, but you're a great guy and will make a girl happy.
3) You're a friend so I don't want to date you, but you're a great guy and will make a girl happy.
Answers:
1) If it's true, good. I don't like people who cheat.
2) Lie.
3) Lie.
I can think of two females in my life now that I wouldn't date because I like having them as a friend more. (I'm excluding family, you sick fucks) Both of which read this and should know who they are.
I'm sick of being that nice guy girls think they should open up to. The two aforementioned chicks are fine, because I've known them for years and can probably be helpful above being a male figure they can spill their guts to. I like being helpful, but enough is enough. It's been a while since I've actually opened up to somebody I've listened to and cared about, and had them accept me. I've almost completely stopped opening up, and I know it's a problem. It's to the point with a certain person (yeah, you) that I want to figure out how they can attach themself so fully while I can detach myself from everything I hold dear in the blink of an eye. It's not about my opinion on what should be done, or the hard facts of the situation, but I want to know how and why the human brain can have such polar opposite processes about a general situation.
But just like that situation I keep seeing, I'll never make my move away from the ruts I'm in. I'll be like this until something changes me. It's not about willpower, if I was adequately motivated, I would stop... but it's just one of the returnless pastimes I do to fill the gape.