It's been a while.
My goodness, how things have changed.
Husband now has a girlfriend of his own. Which is one of the most surprising things to happen in the past couple... well, years. (I'll call her Red. I can't think of anything better at this point.) I'm still... still dealing with feelings related to the whole Husband/Red thing. I like Red a lot, a hell of a lot, but... Husband does everything he hated that I would do when I was with M, and more. He'll disappear with Red for hours sometimes, and not respond when I ask where he is. On their first date, they went out to dinner and Husband didn't come home until 3 am. This weekend, he spent the night at Red's house last night (while I stayed with Boy), and when I got home around noon, Hubby said "I'll be home soon"... and didn't show up until 5:30. I don't like how he's behaving lately, but I'm trying not to let it get to me.
Things with Boy are going well, though. Incredibly well. Which is very good.
M is apparently moving to Bloomington next summer, and thinks we are going to be BFFs. (Yes, he and I are talking again. No, I don't talk to him much.) Considering he's still banned from entering my apartment, and considering he still irritates me with his behavior in person... yeah. No. Not going to happen.
I think this Christmas is going to be interesting. If all works out well, Red and Boy are going to come stay the night with Hubby and I. Not sure how sleeping arrangements will work, but still. When the four of us are together, everything feels good. It feels right. And to spend Christmas with them... it'd be wonderful. Better than any Christmas present I could ask for.
Husband now has a girlfriend of his own. Which is one of the most surprising things to happen in the past couple... well, years. (I'll call her Red. I can't think of anything better at this point.) I'm still... still dealing with feelings related to the whole Husband/Red thing. I like Red a lot, a hell of a lot, but... Husband does everything he hated that I would do when I was with M, and more. He'll disappear with Red for hours sometimes, and not respond when I ask where he is. On their first date, they went out to dinner and Husband didn't come home until 3 am. This weekend, he spent the night at Red's house last night (while I stayed with Boy), and when I got home around noon, Hubby said "I'll be home soon"... and didn't show up until 5:30. I don't like how he's behaving lately, but I'm trying not to let it get to me.
Things with Boy are going well, though. Incredibly well. Which is very good.
M is apparently moving to Bloomington next summer, and thinks we are going to be BFFs. (Yes, he and I are talking again. No, I don't talk to him much.) Considering he's still banned from entering my apartment, and considering he still irritates me with his behavior in person... yeah. No. Not going to happen.
I think this Christmas is going to be interesting. If all works out well, Red and Boy are going to come stay the night with Hubby and I. Not sure how sleeping arrangements will work, but still. When the four of us are together, everything feels good. It feels right. And to spend Christmas with them... it'd be wonderful. Better than any Christmas present I could ask for.