Guys are disgusting pigs

[casbur]

Why do all of you guys, even the best of you, have to be disgusting perverted pigs? Even those who supposedly can remain faithful can't seem to see how hurtful it is to look at porn and get aroused by another chick. I am certainly sexy, interesting, beautiful, funny, loving, caring, creative (if you know what i mean) and yet still porn is

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Re: porn/erotica/whatever

[casbur]

For the sake of argument (and we know How I love to argue) are you saying that people should be able to do absolutely whatever they want at all times? We are supposed to give in to every one of our urges? Not only does that shatter the whole idea of what love is, it paints a picture of what I know would be an even worse world to live in. If this were the case a lot of people would be doing nothing but fighting, eating, sleeping, having sex with random people, they would be ignorant useless wastes of space. I'm just saying...and you know, some people choose to have open relationships as well...anywho, you are somewhat right and somewhat wrong...I could react 2 ways: 1) I know that if I leered at other guys or had a bunch of playgirls or told him how hot other guys were, etc. he would feel bad and insecure and end up getting angry. 2)it is extremely rare that a thought even comes in my head about another guy, and I usually am honest about it and 3) he had been adamant from the start that he wasn't into porn really, so it shocked me and made me feel like he was hiding it from me, which I think is what hurt me...4) his sister proclaimed it in front of his family, which hurt my pride because I feel like, what does that say about me that he needs to look at porn? Actually I realize, upon more thought, that it says nothing about me whatsoever. Also, I know people are curious, and FYI we are not fighting any more about it. My utmost desire is for him to feel that he can be, and be, open and honest to me completely. And sue me for wishing (and believing) that I can fulfill most of his dreams, desires, not in a slavelike way, just because I love him. That's all.

Re: porn/erotica/whatever

[prowierd]

cheerio. and yes, i do believe people should be able to do whatever they want whenever they want. without consequence. that is the problem i have with the world i live in.

[casbur]

Well then we are just very different people and I guess I will just leave it at that. As if this is a surprise! haha

[prowierd]

haha your self bitch!

[casbur]

I don't know what that is about but I cannot comprehend that comment being a joke, so presuming that you are serious, you can consider yourself no longer a friend of mine.