Guys are disgusting pigs

[casbur]

Why do all of you guys, even the best of you, have to be disgusting perverted pigs? Even those who supposedly can remain faithful can't seem to see how hurtful it is to look at porn and get aroused by another chick. I am certainly sexy, interesting, beautiful, funny, loving, caring, creative (if you know what i mean) and yet still porn is

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Re: Alternative perspectives.

[casbur]

Actually, I really appreciate your comment, and your point resonates with me. You see, I think I get disappointed in humans in general, and here's the kicker - I have looked at those kinds of things before when I was away from a boyfriend. This will seem hypocritical, but I was disappointed in myself and felt guilty, so I hoped, as he is a really good guy, that he would be stronger than I was. Also, I had the fear reaction of not knowing his motivation for looking at it, and wondering what kind he was looking at. The thing is that none of us can be all things...breaking it down, if, for example, I am hot because I am somewhat petite and have brown hair and small breasts, I cannot also be a tall black woman with huge breasts. This is the paradox, being attractive as I am means I cannot be attractive for what I am not...this probably sounds crazy!! Anyways, I have chosen to ponder it but not let it ruin an otherwise great relationship. I suppose in my weaker moments I do fantasize about the extreme OTHER, as you said to realize what is not reality, and be more sure about what IS, and grateful for it.

Re: Alternative perspectives.

[talonxpool]

I am glad to have helped, your point doesn't sound crazy at all, we are only human after all.