For some reason I thought I should repost this, lol
I wrote this a while ago, and I got some news today that made me have to think about all of this shit again, so here it is. Oh ya btw, your 'friends' had some interesting things to say about my side of the story, LMAO!!!!!
"Well today sucked ass!!! I took my girls to get craft stuff so Caitlin could make a Father's Day card for Abel. For his gift I planned on paying for him to get a new tatooo. He has been saying for a while that he really wants one. When we got home Abel told me that he just spent $250, and now I can't afford to buy his present.
Then I get on here and start reading my friends blog entries. I realize that I can be a bitch. However I don't deserve some of the things that were said about me. I convinced my husband that it would be a good idea to help out HIS friends and let them live with us. They move in and don't have to pay rent for over three months. During that time they pissed their money away on drugs and alcohol, and some other minor stupid shit that they didn't need. We finally said they had to pay rent, $300 a month. This was considerably lower than their rent at their apt. of like $600(mind you our total rent was $950), and they are still spending anything extra on drugs and alcohol. They smoked from the time they woke up till the time they went to bed. Before they moved in, my house was almost always clean. The only thing that ever made it messy was toys and random shit, but I straightened up everyday. Their apartment was so disgustingly dirty when they lived there that me and my husband cleaned it for them, cuz we didn't want to eat or shower there. (we stayed there for two days while new tile was being put in our bathroom) you couldn't walk on the actual floor you had to walk all over their shit. Once they moved in with us our house became a disaster. The were almost incapable of cleaning up after themselves. When I asked them to help clean, I became the 'bitch'. Why should I have to ask adults to clean up their own fucking messes. Then their dad comes over and sees that the house is a mess and their kids are dirty, ok her kids weren't dirty I will give her that. He takes them to court. He also accused them of using drugs. We all get investigated by CPS. This is because of them!!! I could have gotten my kid taken away because of them!!! So the deal was if they wanted to continue to live with us they can't do anymore drugs, and especially can't have them in my house. I think that is fair...it's my fucking house. They didn't even pay half the rent and no utilities, and rarely did we get them to pay for half of the food. Mind you there were four of them and three of us. We get a bigger house to accommodate them, and all of a sudden I'm a bitch. Mind you my husband wanted to put them out on their asses in November and I kept saying no that they were our friends and I couldn't be the cause of two kids being homeless. But I'm 'The Bitch'. Well Fuck You. I should have let him put your sorry asses out. They continued to use drugs IN MY HOUSE and once again I don't tell my husband cuz I didn't want them to get kicked out. Then she starts bitchin that our kids are fighting. Well duh!!! Siblings fight!! You say that my solution wasn't working but you offered no alternatives did you? NO. You say that my kid was abusing your kid? Your kid would lie constantly and say that mine hurt him, when she wasn't anywhere near him. He couldn't open his mouth to do anything else but whine. Speaking of kids didn't you know that THC comes through in breast milk? Your baby was drugged out for the first 10 months of his life cuz you couldn't stop smoking long enough to nurse your kid. Thats why he was a zombie. Thats why he couldn't crawl or walk on time. He was high for almost the first year of his life. Wouldn't I have been a bitch if I had told your daddy that? hahaha I still should. I should send him a link to your live journal and your myspace. What do you think daddy would say when he reads your entries....wait no I am not that much of a bitch. I still would not want anything to happen to your kids, and I am not that hateful. When I first read all that shit you wrote about me I was pist, then I said to myself that it was a hard time on everyone and you were probably just venting. So I messaged you and tried to reconnect. You said that you were surprised how mature I am. Well of course I had to be mature to put up with a couple of drug addicts. So you know who you are: How does it feel to have things wrote about you on the internet, how does it feel to see someone tell the truth about what kind of parent and person you are. Not nice huh? You never had the balls to say any of that shit to my face. I have no respect for you. I only ever tried to be your friend. I cared about you and you were insincere and hateful. We helped you when you needed it most and you treat us like we made your life hell. So what, I demanded that you respect me and my home. If it was so bad why did it take so long for you to take your broke, drugged out, drunk asses someplace else."
"Well today sucked ass!!! I took my girls to get craft stuff so Caitlin could make a Father's Day card for Abel. For his gift I planned on paying for him to get a new tatooo. He has been saying for a while that he really wants one. When we got home Abel told me that he just spent $250, and now I can't afford to buy his present.
Then I get on here and start reading my friends blog entries. I realize that I can be a bitch. However I don't deserve some of the things that were said about me. I convinced my husband that it would be a good idea to help out HIS friends and let them live with us. They move in and don't have to pay rent for over three months. During that time they pissed their money away on drugs and alcohol, and some other minor stupid shit that they didn't need. We finally said they had to pay rent, $300 a month. This was considerably lower than their rent at their apt. of like $600(mind you our total rent was $950), and they are still spending anything extra on drugs and alcohol. They smoked from the time they woke up till the time they went to bed. Before they moved in, my house was almost always clean. The only thing that ever made it messy was toys and random shit, but I straightened up everyday. Their apartment was so disgustingly dirty when they lived there that me and my husband cleaned it for them, cuz we didn't want to eat or shower there. (we stayed there for two days while new tile was being put in our bathroom) you couldn't walk on the actual floor you had to walk all over their shit. Once they moved in with us our house became a disaster. The were almost incapable of cleaning up after themselves. When I asked them to help clean, I became the 'bitch'. Why should I have to ask adults to clean up their own fucking messes. Then their dad comes over and sees that the house is a mess and their kids are dirty, ok her kids weren't dirty I will give her that. He takes them to court. He also accused them of using drugs. We all get investigated by CPS. This is because of them!!! I could have gotten my kid taken away because of them!!! So the deal was if they wanted to continue to live with us they can't do anymore drugs, and especially can't have them in my house. I think that is fair...it's my fucking house. They didn't even pay half the rent and no utilities, and rarely did we get them to pay for half of the food. Mind you there were four of them and three of us. We get a bigger house to accommodate them, and all of a sudden I'm a bitch. Mind you my husband wanted to put them out on their asses in November and I kept saying no that they were our friends and I couldn't be the cause of two kids being homeless. But I'm 'The Bitch'. Well Fuck You. I should have let him put your sorry asses out. They continued to use drugs IN MY HOUSE and once again I don't tell my husband cuz I didn't want them to get kicked out. Then she starts bitchin that our kids are fighting. Well duh!!! Siblings fight!! You say that my solution wasn't working but you offered no alternatives did you? NO. You say that my kid was abusing your kid? Your kid would lie constantly and say that mine hurt him, when she wasn't anywhere near him. He couldn't open his mouth to do anything else but whine. Speaking of kids didn't you know that THC comes through in breast milk? Your baby was drugged out for the first 10 months of his life cuz you couldn't stop smoking long enough to nurse your kid. Thats why he was a zombie. Thats why he couldn't crawl or walk on time. He was high for almost the first year of his life. Wouldn't I have been a bitch if I had told your daddy that? hahaha I still should. I should send him a link to your live journal and your myspace. What do you think daddy would say when he reads your entries....wait no I am not that much of a bitch. I still would not want anything to happen to your kids, and I am not that hateful. When I first read all that shit you wrote about me I was pist, then I said to myself that it was a hard time on everyone and you were probably just venting. So I messaged you and tried to reconnect. You said that you were surprised how mature I am. Well of course I had to be mature to put up with a couple of drug addicts. So you know who you are: How does it feel to have things wrote about you on the internet, how does it feel to see someone tell the truth about what kind of parent and person you are. Not nice huh? You never had the balls to say any of that shit to my face. I have no respect for you. I only ever tried to be your friend. I cared about you and you were insincere and hateful. We helped you when you needed it most and you treat us like we made your life hell. So what, I demanded that you respect me and my home. If it was so bad why did it take so long for you to take your broke, drugged out, drunk asses someplace else."