Harold and Marian's astrology
So this originates from a conversation from back in 2020, but I was thinking about this again and decided to make it into a proper blog post, highlighting the parts I like the most. I had a lot of fun doing this and it always puts me in a good mood to fixate on Harold and Marian like this hahaha!
Also a disclaimer that, no, I don't actually put much stock into astrology, although it is interesting for literary purposes like these or just for funsies! I also know that there's a lot more to it, like moon signs and rising signs (and even more) but I am just going with the sun signs at this time.
Their birthdates are my personal fanon/headcanon, obviously, but I very specifically wanted them to have these signs because the descriptions, and the compatibility description, fit so amazingly well. It's just a fun little bonus to make their signs represent them so well, I guess.
(one more thing to note..... I saw an Instagram post recently where somebody represented each astrological sign with one of the leading ladies currently on Broadway, and they used Marian to represent Taurus! I was so very tickled because I've held the "Marian is a Taurus" headcanon for years :D )
Now, onto the content. Instead of just pasting the descriptions in here, I have extracted the bits that felt especially fitting for me and gathered them together. Also, I added a little bit of my own commentary in italicized brackets in places. And the bolded parts are phrases that especially jumped out at me.
All descriptions come from www.astrology.com.
Harold Hill - Aries
(April 1, 1876)
Overview:
Being the first sign of the zodiac, an Aries man is always number one, so get used to his needing a lot of attention.
This kind of self-absorption isn’t coming from a truly narcissistic place, but from an honest self-assurance of his own capability and all-around awesomeness. It’s true that Mars-ruled Aries men are good at what they do, and they’re not shy about standing in the spotlight.
Don’t be surprised, however, when their private persona reveals more vulnerability than you might have expected. Underneath that bombastic bravado, a childlike naiveté can cause them to end up with hurt feelings that are often masked by humor. It can be hard to keep up with their rapidfire wit, flair for grand gestures, and impressive libidos - so prepare to do a little stamina training in those areas if you have one of these fine fellows in your life!
Stubborn as the Ram that symbolically represents him, the typical Aries man is a warrior for what he believes to be right and true. With driven, passionate, and courageous personalities, these men tend to be movers and shakers who make big things happen in their careers and communities. Their assertiveness can be mistaken for aggression, but often it’s just the raw enthusiasm and verve that propels these horned creatures up and down the mountain.
You’ll never meet a shy Aries, and though subtlety is not one of their strongest personality traits, they’ll keep you laughing and will always dazzle you with their dynamic energy, creativity, and wild moves on the dance floor. Aries men are mischievous but not devious, sometimes foolhardy but never fools, egotistic but not selfish, seriously sexy, and extremely fun to be around.
Love and Sex:
The Aries man is hot, hot, hot - physically and emotionally. Even when not conventionally handsome, these guys possess a kind of bravado and raw sexuality that oozes off of them, often making them infuriatingly attractive. There’s an innate confidence in the way they carry themselves - an energetic saunter, a wry grin, a double entendre that will make you want to stand closer to them in spite of yourself. [this is all just canon omg]
Sex with an Aries man can be quite an athletic affair - lots of sweat pouring off slick flanks, acrobatic positions, and possibly a bit of consensual rough play. [I am blushing just from copy-pasting this but just try to tell me that isn't Harold Hill, and his sex life w/ Marian... not even gonna lie, this passage continues to subtly influence my writing ever since I read it]
Once he’s decided he wants you, he’ll put up with a lot if he thinks he can attain the prize.
Home Life and Family:
[I think this line kinda applies to Harold BEFORE getting his River City house and being married to Marian]: ...they often don’t think of home as a place to share, or even really a place where they want to spend too much time - not with all the exciting things to do and see out in the world.
He’ll definitely begin a chore with great enthusiasm, but often get distracted by something new that absolutely needs doing before the first thing is ever completed.
As a dad, the Aries man is excellent at making little ones explode into fits of helpless giggling and happy to unleash his inner clown to delight children of all ages. This is the kind of father who may toss his babe high up in the air before catching them again, or toss them in the pool to teach them to swim - much to the chagrin of their possibly more safety-conscious and risk-averse co-parent. [I do NOT think he would toss his kids in a pool lmao]
Work and Money:
An Aries man knows what he wants immediately, and goes after it with zero hesitation. This kind of man is often a leaper off of high cliffs, and not always a looker to see what lies down below. There’s a “me first!” mentality that can result in a sense of urgency in regards to ambition and initiative. This can make them natural leaders, ready to head up the vanguard.
With impulsive and idealistic traits, Aries tend to dream big, which means that they can be enterprising entrepreneurs, but many of their endeavors may end up being a flash in the pan. Often pioneers in their field, these fellows are always engaged in an intense race to be number one - to get their invention patented, to get the scoop, or to make their brilliant business idea the first of its kind. There is a sense of urgency to everything these Rams do, and their success is always defined by their primacy. If they aren’t the first ones to reach the highest peak of the mountain, what’s the point?
But luck is often on their side, usually helping him come out on top of seemingly impossible situations.
Gift Giving:
An Aries man lives for adrenaline, change, excitement, and novelty - so if you want to give him gifts, choose skydiving lessons, martial arts classes, or an exciting surprise vacation to somewhere he’s never been before. Surprises of all kinds are welcome here - the Ram is a sign who actually enjoys being caught a little off-guard, and will totally respect you for being able to pull off a surprise party without him finding out.
Going the extra mile will make him feel special - he wants to feel like he matters, so show him that he does by giving him gifts that are meant for him and him alone. Your Aries man is an original - there’s no one else quite like him.
Self-expression is a big deal for these guys, and they will always add their personal signature to whatever they choose as their focus.
Marian Paroo - Taurus
(May 11, 1886)
Overview:
An embodiment of the goddess in her corporeal form, the feminine Taurus is the zodiac’s ultimate Earth Mama. Ruled by Venus, the Empress of Love (whose motto is “All acts of love and pleasure are my rituals”), the Taurus woman lives completely by that truth.
Beauty-loving, sensual... the Taurus woman naturally embraces the finer things in life: Not only does she have refined tastes in material goods, she also has a deep reverence for nature.Taurus is a fixed sign, which means that you will find traits such as determination, self-reliance, and perseverance in women born under the sign of the Bull. These women are powerful forces to be reckoned with - when they set their mind to something, you can bet that it happens!
At the same time, the Taurus woman balances a forceful focus and formidable work ethic with an enjoyment of pleasure, relaxation, and beauty. She works hard, and when she’s done for the day, you’ll find her resting hard, too - like a Bull in the clover. [I think this balance is an aspect of Marian's personality that definitely doesn't really emerge until she's with Harold.] Her characteristics make her stable and reliable, and everything she does, she infuses with great purpose. If it’s worth doing at all, she’s going to make sure she does it well, down to the finishing touches - and that includes every facet of her existence, from personal creative projects to all aspects of her career.
That thoroughness and fixity will sometimes get her in trouble if she’s committed to something that her heart’s not truly in - because once the blinders are firmly strapped into place, she’s usually in it for the long haul.
Love and Sex:
Loyal friends, and companionable, ardent lovers, a Taurus is yours for life - unless you cross her firmly set boundaries, in which case, prepare to feel her horns! [This is so Marian Paroo that it's actually startling]
Once she sets her heels, the Taurus woman is rooted to the spot in her position, so forget about trying to sway her back to your point of view. You might be surprised by her sense of humor, which can be playful and even shockingly raunchy! This is a relationship to be enjoyed heartily - honor her as an incarnation of Aphrodite [OBSESSED with this line, this is literally a motif running through my work of how Harold views Marian!!] and she will shower you with delight. She will, without a doubt, teach you a thing or two.
The Taurus woman is a deeply sensual being, and regards sex as one of the greatest art forms. She loves lots of foreplay, cuddling, mutual massage, and long, languorous hours of touch. [granted, this is all taught to her by Harold of course. But still fits. It stems from their love and mutual dynamic, not either one of them alone. The two sides, the "wild athletic roughness" and the "long languorous hours" are both present and harmonious.] No wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am business is going down in her arena - no sir! This lady is going to take her time, and do it right. You can count on her to be thorough and dedicated about getting exactly what she wants out of a sexual experience: Maximum pleasure both for you and for herself, equally.
If you learn how to love this earth goddess like she deserves, you may win her for keeps...Taurean women tend to be steadfast in relationships and trustworthy.
Earn that trust, and you will find yourself blessed by the Queen of Heaven in earthly form, who you can bet will work hard to make the relationship between you a vision of bliss.
Home Life and Family:
The living space of a Taurus woman is the essence of home. She is incredibly affected by her personal environment, and she will make sure that when you walk into her house, you feel as comfortable and at home there as she does
The natural world is the haven of the female Taurus personality, and she is happiest when she can look out her windows and see mostly trees.
Taurus women are excellent nurturers, and often make fantastic cooks - usually of healthy, stick-to-your ribs meals. No child of a Taurus mother will ever go hungry or want for any creature comfort. Warm, snuggly blankets abound on all the beds, and the chairs and sofas may be softened further with fluffy sheepskins. This is a space for mother and child to lounge, cuddle, read stories, sing songs, eat delicious and nourishing porridge, and gaze wonderingly at interesting rocks and plants.
Touch is important to a Taurus, and she makes a very hands-on parent, always ready with a loving hug or hand to hold. Routine is an important characteristic in a Taurus household, and discipline is followed because it always just makes such perfect sense! Firm, grounded Taurus creates a safe and secure haven for all beings to thrive.
Work and Money:
There’s a quiet capability about the Taurean woman - never afraid to roll up her sleeves and do the work, she can surprise you with her physical and emotional strength and resilience. Taurean women are often artists, poets, or musicians, and are deeply inspired by the earth and all her creatures. Plants and animals speak to her soul, and are often expressed through her creativite characteristics - even if she doesn’t have a garden or a pet of her own to nurture.
You might call the Taurus woman bull-headed at times, but she’s not stubbornly digging her heels in just for the sake of being right. The truth is, she has extremely well-thought-out, practical, and extremely reasonable points to make, and it’s difficult to argue with her rationale. [THIS. WHOLE. PARAGRAPH.]
Once she sets her mind to do something, she just makes it happen - no matter what. Exceedingly reliable and satisfied by working hard at something she enjoys doing, you can trust that your Taurean will get the job done on time, with grace and aplomb. A Taurus woman manages her money well, and knows how to save - and how to spend! Part of why she works so hard is so that she can enjoy the finer things in life.
Gift Giving:
Picture a female Taurus curled up near her hearth in the evening, with a mug of hot tea and some nourishing soup.
Graceful yet grounded, sensuous yet sensible, and lushly luxurious but never averse to getting dirt under their nails, ladies born under the sign of the Bull always have an excellent sense of style - projecting an easy elegance, whether dressed comfortably for hard work in vintage denim or for lounging voluptuously in flowing silks. Natural beauties, they are especially stunning [ok this one is just silly for a zodiac description but I am always game to talk about how gorgeous Marian is!] without a speck of makeup, though they may enjoy playing with colors and sparkle for effect.
If you want to make an impression with a gift to your Taurus woman, choose something impeccably handcrafted and one-of-kind. She might not thank you for anything cheap, plastic, or mass-produced. It’s best if you can find out the specific thing that she’s had her eye on, because she would much rather have control over the sentimental objects she chooses to keep in her home.
Aries and Taurus Compatibility
When Aries and Taurus come together in a love affair, the partnership is a natural union of Love, represented by Taurus, and Passion, represented by Aries. This relationship is all about balance. Aries wants to jump right in and get into it, while Taurus prefers to go much more slowly. This can create a problem; Taurus loves to be wooed and romanced - two concepts that are basically foreign to straightforward, brash, totally unsubtle Aries. [so he learns!] An Aries-Taurus partnership can be a great learning experience for both Signs. Taurus can help Aries rein in some of the more foolish, impractical impulses, and Aries can help Taurus be more spontaneous and adventurous. [this is so spot-on I'm bowled over]
Taurus is sensual, patient and gentle. Aries is attracted to these qualities; Aries sees Taurus as their rock, totally stable and loyal forever. Taurus sees Aries as possessing that quality they want more of - knowing when and how to grab on to life’s opportunities. These Signs are a good balance for each other. Aries might sometimes play games with Taurus or try to push Taurus into making hasty decisions, but the Bull can usually convince the Ram to slow down a bit. Aries brings excitement to the relationship, while Taurus brings security and romance. When Aries wants instant gratification, Taurus can show just how sexy and sensual slow, deliberate movement can be. [this last line I can interpret as their anticipation of the consummation of their love on their wedding night, although of course I certainly wouldn't say that Marian is *teaching* Harold anything about sex and sensuality during their courtship when she doesn't yet know anything herself... but it is *because* of her that he learns.]
Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars (passion), and Taurus is ruled by the Planet Venus (love). Venus and Mars go well together; they represent the two necessary halves of the same relationship coin. The symbols are universally recognized as masculine and feminine, so this relationship is a good balance of these energies.
Aries is a Cardinal Sign, and Taurus is a Fixed Sign. In this relationship, Aries is not going to get their own way no matter how hard they try - so it’s a much better idea not to try at all. Taurus is a Fixed Sign that won’t budge; Aries will get much further with finesse and charm (Taurus is a real sucker for both) than with argument, since Taurus never loses a debate. Both Signs want to be the leader in the relationship, so compromise is essential. Aries is a Fire Sign and Taurus is an Earth Sign. Aries wants to take charge of their own destiny, while Taurus needs to be assured of security and stability.
What’s the best aspect of the Aries-Taurus relationship? The passionate nature of the partnership. This is an excellent balance of energy between masculine and feminine, impulsive and deliberate. Their contrasting personalities and ability to learn from one another make theirs a mutually giving and satisfying relationship. [that's it, that right there is the overarching theme to my whole universe of stories!]
and yes I did pick May 11th for Marian's birthday just because I never picked one, it needed to be in May, and that happens to be tomorrow, plus 11 is a nice little lucky number 🥳
Also the sheer fun of it being '76 made it easy for me to finally settle on Harold's birth year once and for all! And it also creates the 10-year age gap I've been leaning towards! Synchronicity!
Also a disclaimer that, no, I don't actually put much stock into astrology, although it is interesting for literary purposes like these or just for funsies! I also know that there's a lot more to it, like moon signs and rising signs (and even more) but I am just going with the sun signs at this time.
Their birthdates are my personal fanon/headcanon, obviously, but I very specifically wanted them to have these signs because the descriptions, and the compatibility description, fit so amazingly well. It's just a fun little bonus to make their signs represent them so well, I guess.
(one more thing to note..... I saw an Instagram post recently where somebody represented each astrological sign with one of the leading ladies currently on Broadway, and they used Marian to represent Taurus! I was so very tickled because I've held the "Marian is a Taurus" headcanon for years :D )
Now, onto the content. Instead of just pasting the descriptions in here, I have extracted the bits that felt especially fitting for me and gathered them together. Also, I added a little bit of my own commentary in italicized brackets in places. And the bolded parts are phrases that especially jumped out at me.
All descriptions come from www.astrology.com.
Harold Hill - Aries
(April 1, 1876)
Overview:
Being the first sign of the zodiac, an Aries man is always number one, so get used to his needing a lot of attention.
This kind of self-absorption isn’t coming from a truly narcissistic place, but from an honest self-assurance of his own capability and all-around awesomeness. It’s true that Mars-ruled Aries men are good at what they do, and they’re not shy about standing in the spotlight.
Don’t be surprised, however, when their private persona reveals more vulnerability than you might have expected. Underneath that bombastic bravado, a childlike naiveté can cause them to end up with hurt feelings that are often masked by humor. It can be hard to keep up with their rapidfire wit, flair for grand gestures, and impressive libidos - so prepare to do a little stamina training in those areas if you have one of these fine fellows in your life!
Stubborn as the Ram that symbolically represents him, the typical Aries man is a warrior for what he believes to be right and true. With driven, passionate, and courageous personalities, these men tend to be movers and shakers who make big things happen in their careers and communities. Their assertiveness can be mistaken for aggression, but often it’s just the raw enthusiasm and verve that propels these horned creatures up and down the mountain.
You’ll never meet a shy Aries, and though subtlety is not one of their strongest personality traits, they’ll keep you laughing and will always dazzle you with their dynamic energy, creativity, and wild moves on the dance floor. Aries men are mischievous but not devious, sometimes foolhardy but never fools, egotistic but not selfish, seriously sexy, and extremely fun to be around.
Love and Sex:
The Aries man is hot, hot, hot - physically and emotionally. Even when not conventionally handsome, these guys possess a kind of bravado and raw sexuality that oozes off of them, often making them infuriatingly attractive. There’s an innate confidence in the way they carry themselves - an energetic saunter, a wry grin, a double entendre that will make you want to stand closer to them in spite of yourself. [this is all just canon omg]
Sex with an Aries man can be quite an athletic affair - lots of sweat pouring off slick flanks, acrobatic positions, and possibly a bit of consensual rough play. [I am blushing just from copy-pasting this but just try to tell me that isn't Harold Hill, and his sex life w/ Marian... not even gonna lie, this passage continues to subtly influence my writing ever since I read it]
Once he’s decided he wants you, he’ll put up with a lot if he thinks he can attain the prize.
Home Life and Family:
[I think this line kinda applies to Harold BEFORE getting his River City house and being married to Marian]: ...they often don’t think of home as a place to share, or even really a place where they want to spend too much time - not with all the exciting things to do and see out in the world.
He’ll definitely begin a chore with great enthusiasm, but often get distracted by something new that absolutely needs doing before the first thing is ever completed.
As a dad, the Aries man is excellent at making little ones explode into fits of helpless giggling and happy to unleash his inner clown to delight children of all ages. This is the kind of father who may toss his babe high up in the air before catching them again, or toss them in the pool to teach them to swim - much to the chagrin of their possibly more safety-conscious and risk-averse co-parent. [I do NOT think he would toss his kids in a pool lmao]
Work and Money:
An Aries man knows what he wants immediately, and goes after it with zero hesitation. This kind of man is often a leaper off of high cliffs, and not always a looker to see what lies down below. There’s a “me first!” mentality that can result in a sense of urgency in regards to ambition and initiative. This can make them natural leaders, ready to head up the vanguard.
With impulsive and idealistic traits, Aries tend to dream big, which means that they can be enterprising entrepreneurs, but many of their endeavors may end up being a flash in the pan. Often pioneers in their field, these fellows are always engaged in an intense race to be number one - to get their invention patented, to get the scoop, or to make their brilliant business idea the first of its kind. There is a sense of urgency to everything these Rams do, and their success is always defined by their primacy. If they aren’t the first ones to reach the highest peak of the mountain, what’s the point?
But luck is often on their side, usually helping him come out on top of seemingly impossible situations.
Gift Giving:
An Aries man lives for adrenaline, change, excitement, and novelty - so if you want to give him gifts, choose skydiving lessons, martial arts classes, or an exciting surprise vacation to somewhere he’s never been before. Surprises of all kinds are welcome here - the Ram is a sign who actually enjoys being caught a little off-guard, and will totally respect you for being able to pull off a surprise party without him finding out.
Going the extra mile will make him feel special - he wants to feel like he matters, so show him that he does by giving him gifts that are meant for him and him alone. Your Aries man is an original - there’s no one else quite like him.
Self-expression is a big deal for these guys, and they will always add their personal signature to whatever they choose as their focus.
Marian Paroo - Taurus
(May 11, 1886)
Overview:
An embodiment of the goddess in her corporeal form, the feminine Taurus is the zodiac’s ultimate Earth Mama. Ruled by Venus, the Empress of Love (whose motto is “All acts of love and pleasure are my rituals”), the Taurus woman lives completely by that truth.
Beauty-loving, sensual... the Taurus woman naturally embraces the finer things in life: Not only does she have refined tastes in material goods, she also has a deep reverence for nature.Taurus is a fixed sign, which means that you will find traits such as determination, self-reliance, and perseverance in women born under the sign of the Bull. These women are powerful forces to be reckoned with - when they set their mind to something, you can bet that it happens!
At the same time, the Taurus woman balances a forceful focus and formidable work ethic with an enjoyment of pleasure, relaxation, and beauty. She works hard, and when she’s done for the day, you’ll find her resting hard, too - like a Bull in the clover. [I think this balance is an aspect of Marian's personality that definitely doesn't really emerge until she's with Harold.] Her characteristics make her stable and reliable, and everything she does, she infuses with great purpose. If it’s worth doing at all, she’s going to make sure she does it well, down to the finishing touches - and that includes every facet of her existence, from personal creative projects to all aspects of her career.
That thoroughness and fixity will sometimes get her in trouble if she’s committed to something that her heart’s not truly in - because once the blinders are firmly strapped into place, she’s usually in it for the long haul.
Love and Sex:
Loyal friends, and companionable, ardent lovers, a Taurus is yours for life - unless you cross her firmly set boundaries, in which case, prepare to feel her horns! [This is so Marian Paroo that it's actually startling]
Once she sets her heels, the Taurus woman is rooted to the spot in her position, so forget about trying to sway her back to your point of view. You might be surprised by her sense of humor, which can be playful and even shockingly raunchy! This is a relationship to be enjoyed heartily - honor her as an incarnation of Aphrodite [OBSESSED with this line, this is literally a motif running through my work of how Harold views Marian!!] and she will shower you with delight. She will, without a doubt, teach you a thing or two.
The Taurus woman is a deeply sensual being, and regards sex as one of the greatest art forms. She loves lots of foreplay, cuddling, mutual massage, and long, languorous hours of touch. [granted, this is all taught to her by Harold of course. But still fits. It stems from their love and mutual dynamic, not either one of them alone. The two sides, the "wild athletic roughness" and the "long languorous hours" are both present and harmonious.] No wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am business is going down in her arena - no sir! This lady is going to take her time, and do it right. You can count on her to be thorough and dedicated about getting exactly what she wants out of a sexual experience: Maximum pleasure both for you and for herself, equally.
If you learn how to love this earth goddess like she deserves, you may win her for keeps...Taurean women tend to be steadfast in relationships and trustworthy.
Earn that trust, and you will find yourself blessed by the Queen of Heaven in earthly form, who you can bet will work hard to make the relationship between you a vision of bliss.
Home Life and Family:
The living space of a Taurus woman is the essence of home. She is incredibly affected by her personal environment, and she will make sure that when you walk into her house, you feel as comfortable and at home there as she does
The natural world is the haven of the female Taurus personality, and she is happiest when she can look out her windows and see mostly trees.
Taurus women are excellent nurturers, and often make fantastic cooks - usually of healthy, stick-to-your ribs meals. No child of a Taurus mother will ever go hungry or want for any creature comfort. Warm, snuggly blankets abound on all the beds, and the chairs and sofas may be softened further with fluffy sheepskins. This is a space for mother and child to lounge, cuddle, read stories, sing songs, eat delicious and nourishing porridge, and gaze wonderingly at interesting rocks and plants.
Touch is important to a Taurus, and she makes a very hands-on parent, always ready with a loving hug or hand to hold. Routine is an important characteristic in a Taurus household, and discipline is followed because it always just makes such perfect sense! Firm, grounded Taurus creates a safe and secure haven for all beings to thrive.
Work and Money:
There’s a quiet capability about the Taurean woman - never afraid to roll up her sleeves and do the work, she can surprise you with her physical and emotional strength and resilience. Taurean women are often artists, poets, or musicians, and are deeply inspired by the earth and all her creatures. Plants and animals speak to her soul, and are often expressed through her creativite characteristics - even if she doesn’t have a garden or a pet of her own to nurture.
You might call the Taurus woman bull-headed at times, but she’s not stubbornly digging her heels in just for the sake of being right. The truth is, she has extremely well-thought-out, practical, and extremely reasonable points to make, and it’s difficult to argue with her rationale. [THIS. WHOLE. PARAGRAPH.]
Once she sets her mind to do something, she just makes it happen - no matter what. Exceedingly reliable and satisfied by working hard at something she enjoys doing, you can trust that your Taurean will get the job done on time, with grace and aplomb. A Taurus woman manages her money well, and knows how to save - and how to spend! Part of why she works so hard is so that she can enjoy the finer things in life.
Gift Giving:
Picture a female Taurus curled up near her hearth in the evening, with a mug of hot tea and some nourishing soup.
Graceful yet grounded, sensuous yet sensible, and lushly luxurious but never averse to getting dirt under their nails, ladies born under the sign of the Bull always have an excellent sense of style - projecting an easy elegance, whether dressed comfortably for hard work in vintage denim or for lounging voluptuously in flowing silks. Natural beauties, they are especially stunning [ok this one is just silly for a zodiac description but I am always game to talk about how gorgeous Marian is!] without a speck of makeup, though they may enjoy playing with colors and sparkle for effect.
If you want to make an impression with a gift to your Taurus woman, choose something impeccably handcrafted and one-of-kind. She might not thank you for anything cheap, plastic, or mass-produced. It’s best if you can find out the specific thing that she’s had her eye on, because she would much rather have control over the sentimental objects she chooses to keep in her home.
Aries and Taurus Compatibility
When Aries and Taurus come together in a love affair, the partnership is a natural union of Love, represented by Taurus, and Passion, represented by Aries. This relationship is all about balance. Aries wants to jump right in and get into it, while Taurus prefers to go much more slowly. This can create a problem; Taurus loves to be wooed and romanced - two concepts that are basically foreign to straightforward, brash, totally unsubtle Aries. [so he learns!] An Aries-Taurus partnership can be a great learning experience for both Signs. Taurus can help Aries rein in some of the more foolish, impractical impulses, and Aries can help Taurus be more spontaneous and adventurous. [this is so spot-on I'm bowled over]
Taurus is sensual, patient and gentle. Aries is attracted to these qualities; Aries sees Taurus as their rock, totally stable and loyal forever. Taurus sees Aries as possessing that quality they want more of - knowing when and how to grab on to life’s opportunities. These Signs are a good balance for each other. Aries might sometimes play games with Taurus or try to push Taurus into making hasty decisions, but the Bull can usually convince the Ram to slow down a bit. Aries brings excitement to the relationship, while Taurus brings security and romance. When Aries wants instant gratification, Taurus can show just how sexy and sensual slow, deliberate movement can be. [this last line I can interpret as their anticipation of the consummation of their love on their wedding night, although of course I certainly wouldn't say that Marian is *teaching* Harold anything about sex and sensuality during their courtship when she doesn't yet know anything herself... but it is *because* of her that he learns.]
Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars (passion), and Taurus is ruled by the Planet Venus (love). Venus and Mars go well together; they represent the two necessary halves of the same relationship coin. The symbols are universally recognized as masculine and feminine, so this relationship is a good balance of these energies.
Aries is a Cardinal Sign, and Taurus is a Fixed Sign. In this relationship, Aries is not going to get their own way no matter how hard they try - so it’s a much better idea not to try at all. Taurus is a Fixed Sign that won’t budge; Aries will get much further with finesse and charm (Taurus is a real sucker for both) than with argument, since Taurus never loses a debate. Both Signs want to be the leader in the relationship, so compromise is essential. Aries is a Fire Sign and Taurus is an Earth Sign. Aries wants to take charge of their own destiny, while Taurus needs to be assured of security and stability.
What’s the best aspect of the Aries-Taurus relationship? The passionate nature of the partnership. This is an excellent balance of energy between masculine and feminine, impulsive and deliberate. Their contrasting personalities and ability to learn from one another make theirs a mutually giving and satisfying relationship. [that's it, that right there is the overarching theme to my whole universe of stories!]
and yes I did pick May 11th for Marian's birthday just because I never picked one, it needed to be in May, and that happens to be tomorrow, plus 11 is a nice little lucky number 🥳
Also the sheer fun of it being '76 made it easy for me to finally settle on Harold's birth year once and for all! And it also creates the 10-year age gap I've been leaning towards! Synchronicity!