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Eh, unfortunately James couldn't make it last night, so no NLP. But, I had a good talk with my husband about all of the details floating around in my head. Seems we're on the same road, he and I. Sometimes I am surprised with just how much he has on his mind. I'm the one who makes sure everybody's fed and dressed and that things are organized and that we'll be somewhere when we're sposed to be, etc... and I balance car trips and pooling and swim meets and my job and building my clientele and all the little extras like haircuts and laundry. And when I pause to stop thinking about me and ask him if there are things in -his- life that I can be of help with (since I ask him to help me all the time!) he lets out all of this mental planning that he has in his own head... it's mainly work related, but I know it's important to him to get his work done at the end of a given day.
Anyway, it was nice to think about him instead of me and to really listen to what he was saying. Makes me feel like he's not so superhuman after all and that wow, he really does need me. How 'bout that. I thought I was a pain in the ass, always needing him to help.
Anyway, it was nice to think about him instead of me and to really listen to what he was saying. Makes me feel like he's not so superhuman after all and that wow, he really does need me. How 'bout that. I thought I was a pain in the ass, always needing him to help.