numerology, FTW?
Sara - 8
You want success in its fullest meaning -- wealth, power, and material comforts. You have an enormous ambition. You dream of big projects, great undertakings, and rewards.
You are a visionary. You see the horizon and the promise. In general, you also see the methods necessary to fulfill that promise. But you are not especially good with details; you need others to help you deal with the smaller parts of the picture. Your challenge is to make full use of the full spectrum of your abilities, as indicated by your other core numbers. In the same way, you must bring forth the best from others and orchestrate their talents toward the realization of your vision. In short, you must lead by example, demonstrating the standard for commitment, determination, and excellence.
All of this requires effort on your part. You will meet with obstacles and difficulties. Your determination and commitment will be tested. But you have the power to overcome every obstacle you face and accomplish the goal you've set for yourself.
Your task in life is to learn to use power in refined and elevated ways. The expression and use of power is directly related to one's personal evolution. The more primitive uses of power rest with violence and the threat of deprivation. The higher expressions depend upon your capacity to care for and nourish the people and projects in your charge, giving each exactly what is needed at the appropriate time and in appropriate amounts.
You have a creative mind and an unusual approach to business and problem-solving.
You need to cultivate your ability to evaluate others.
It is essential for you to be involved in a project that challenges you and offers the potential for rewards. When you are uninvolved or unoccupied with a worthwhile task, you can become deeply despondent, depressed, and frustrated. You are the perfect example of the old cliché, "Idle hands are the devils workshop." Without a challenge, you can lose balance in life and become selfish, cruel, and even self-destructive. Disappointments become shattering, causing terrible consequences in self-image and self-love.
Perspective is everything for you. You have a natural talent for balancing the spiritual and material planes.
You need to cultivate courage and stamina. Courage is a choice. You need to decide to be brave in the face of fear. A balanced 8 is among the most powerful and satisfying of numbers. It is the spirit of the true survivor, able to bounce back and achieve a greater victory.
Chris - 14/5
Freedom is essential for your happiness. You love change, new experiences, meeting new people, adventure and travel. You love the exotic, far away places. Variety is more than mere spice of life -- you thrive on it. You are extremely flexible and adaptable. You have more curiosity than the proverbial cat. You have a sharp mind and a natural ability with words. You are a born communicator, clear, fluent, and imaginative in every area that interests you -- which are many!
Your Heart's Desire makes you very well equipped for life. Change -- the only constant in life -- doesn't threaten you, as it does other people. You are highly resourceful. Generally, you can think clearly in a crisis; you have good mental and physical reflexes. Whenever you fall, you tend to land on your feet.
You are highly enthusiastic. You get excited easily over a new idea or opportunity. Your nature is unconventional. You are a bit of a gambler, taking risks whenever you think the rewards are worth it.
You are very socially oriented and rarely, if ever, dull or boring. You are, of course, drawn to those people who, like yourself, are original thinkers and have exciting personalities.
You enjoy being involved in several projects at the same time. You need continual stimulation by the new and fascinating. You tend to discard boring pastimes quickly.
Your love of freedom and change can have numerous consequences. You can be irresponsible, especially when it comes to finishing tasks. You have a hard time persevering at a given project and bringing it to completion.
You must be careful that your love of sensory pleasure doesn't lead you to excessive indulgence in alcohol, food, sex, and even drugs.
You are a bit of a hero and want to save the world. This causes you to make promises you often cannot keep. Down deep, you long to please everyone, an impossible goal.
Many 5s can be emotionally superficial. They feel love passionately, but fear making deep and lasting commitments. As a result, they resist the depths of emotional attachments and remain on the surface where it is safe.
You will experience many changes and unusual events, but you learn best through experience. Therefore, your life will be full and you will make great strides in personal growth.
Compatibility is 8 and 5
Chris and Sara, this particular aspect of your charts shows that compatibility can only exist if your roles in the relationship are very different and far apart.
You both have unique qualities, but they rarely overlap. Perhaps the best way to describe the differences between these two numbers is by looking at it from a business perspective instead of a romantic one.
As business partners, Chris and Sara, you could do very well - as long as you play different roles. The five is an excellent promoter and sales person. Chris is dynamic and articulate. Chris thinks fast and finds solutions easily. Because Chris can see through facades better than most people, it is easy for Chris to influence others and resolve personality issues. Sara, in turn, is a visionary, has a strong authoritative presence, and can overcome obstacles because the eye of an eight is always sharply focused on a goal set somewhere in the future - a goal that is to be met no matter what.
Sara is the executive, Chris the marketing expert. Very different qualities that can work well together if you just remember that a promoter and sales person should not try to run a company, and that an executive officer should not try to tell a marketing expert how to sell. So, to stay away from problems, don’t try to do your partner’s job.
In a romantic relationship of a five and an eight, Chris and Sara, a similar picture is visible. As long as you don’t try to influence each other, as long as you don’t try to tell your partner how to behave or what to consider a priority, everything is fine. Make a stab at changing your partner and trouble will certainly be the result.
Other issues that often appear between the five and the eight have to do with Sara’s somewhat authoritative personality and Chris’s social nature. As far as Chris is concerned, there will never be room for any kind of authority, Chris is not a subordinate by nature. For Sara, the fact that Chris is a social person who can become quite involved with one or more friends can be a source of envy, even jealousy.
Chris and Sara, the key to a successful relationship with this particular combination is space and freedom. Your best hope to making your relationship pleasant and long lasting is by keeping some distance within your day-to-day life, your lifestyles, your expectations, and your routines.
You want success in its fullest meaning -- wealth, power, and material comforts. You have an enormous ambition. You dream of big projects, great undertakings, and rewards.
You are a visionary. You see the horizon and the promise. In general, you also see the methods necessary to fulfill that promise. But you are not especially good with details; you need others to help you deal with the smaller parts of the picture. Your challenge is to make full use of the full spectrum of your abilities, as indicated by your other core numbers. In the same way, you must bring forth the best from others and orchestrate their talents toward the realization of your vision. In short, you must lead by example, demonstrating the standard for commitment, determination, and excellence.
All of this requires effort on your part. You will meet with obstacles and difficulties. Your determination and commitment will be tested. But you have the power to overcome every obstacle you face and accomplish the goal you've set for yourself.
Your task in life is to learn to use power in refined and elevated ways. The expression and use of power is directly related to one's personal evolution. The more primitive uses of power rest with violence and the threat of deprivation. The higher expressions depend upon your capacity to care for and nourish the people and projects in your charge, giving each exactly what is needed at the appropriate time and in appropriate amounts.
You have a creative mind and an unusual approach to business and problem-solving.
You need to cultivate your ability to evaluate others.
It is essential for you to be involved in a project that challenges you and offers the potential for rewards. When you are uninvolved or unoccupied with a worthwhile task, you can become deeply despondent, depressed, and frustrated. You are the perfect example of the old cliché, "Idle hands are the devils workshop." Without a challenge, you can lose balance in life and become selfish, cruel, and even self-destructive. Disappointments become shattering, causing terrible consequences in self-image and self-love.
Perspective is everything for you. You have a natural talent for balancing the spiritual and material planes.
You need to cultivate courage and stamina. Courage is a choice. You need to decide to be brave in the face of fear. A balanced 8 is among the most powerful and satisfying of numbers. It is the spirit of the true survivor, able to bounce back and achieve a greater victory.
Chris - 14/5
Freedom is essential for your happiness. You love change, new experiences, meeting new people, adventure and travel. You love the exotic, far away places. Variety is more than mere spice of life -- you thrive on it. You are extremely flexible and adaptable. You have more curiosity than the proverbial cat. You have a sharp mind and a natural ability with words. You are a born communicator, clear, fluent, and imaginative in every area that interests you -- which are many!
Your Heart's Desire makes you very well equipped for life. Change -- the only constant in life -- doesn't threaten you, as it does other people. You are highly resourceful. Generally, you can think clearly in a crisis; you have good mental and physical reflexes. Whenever you fall, you tend to land on your feet.
You are highly enthusiastic. You get excited easily over a new idea or opportunity. Your nature is unconventional. You are a bit of a gambler, taking risks whenever you think the rewards are worth it.
You are very socially oriented and rarely, if ever, dull or boring. You are, of course, drawn to those people who, like yourself, are original thinkers and have exciting personalities.
You enjoy being involved in several projects at the same time. You need continual stimulation by the new and fascinating. You tend to discard boring pastimes quickly.
Your love of freedom and change can have numerous consequences. You can be irresponsible, especially when it comes to finishing tasks. You have a hard time persevering at a given project and bringing it to completion.
You must be careful that your love of sensory pleasure doesn't lead you to excessive indulgence in alcohol, food, sex, and even drugs.
You are a bit of a hero and want to save the world. This causes you to make promises you often cannot keep. Down deep, you long to please everyone, an impossible goal.
Many 5s can be emotionally superficial. They feel love passionately, but fear making deep and lasting commitments. As a result, they resist the depths of emotional attachments and remain on the surface where it is safe.
You will experience many changes and unusual events, but you learn best through experience. Therefore, your life will be full and you will make great strides in personal growth.
Compatibility is 8 and 5
Chris and Sara, this particular aspect of your charts shows that compatibility can only exist if your roles in the relationship are very different and far apart.
You both have unique qualities, but they rarely overlap. Perhaps the best way to describe the differences between these two numbers is by looking at it from a business perspective instead of a romantic one.
As business partners, Chris and Sara, you could do very well - as long as you play different roles. The five is an excellent promoter and sales person. Chris is dynamic and articulate. Chris thinks fast and finds solutions easily. Because Chris can see through facades better than most people, it is easy for Chris to influence others and resolve personality issues. Sara, in turn, is a visionary, has a strong authoritative presence, and can overcome obstacles because the eye of an eight is always sharply focused on a goal set somewhere in the future - a goal that is to be met no matter what.
Sara is the executive, Chris the marketing expert. Very different qualities that can work well together if you just remember that a promoter and sales person should not try to run a company, and that an executive officer should not try to tell a marketing expert how to sell. So, to stay away from problems, don’t try to do your partner’s job.
In a romantic relationship of a five and an eight, Chris and Sara, a similar picture is visible. As long as you don’t try to influence each other, as long as you don’t try to tell your partner how to behave or what to consider a priority, everything is fine. Make a stab at changing your partner and trouble will certainly be the result.
Other issues that often appear between the five and the eight have to do with Sara’s somewhat authoritative personality and Chris’s social nature. As far as Chris is concerned, there will never be room for any kind of authority, Chris is not a subordinate by nature. For Sara, the fact that Chris is a social person who can become quite involved with one or more friends can be a source of envy, even jealousy.
Chris and Sara, the key to a successful relationship with this particular combination is space and freedom. Your best hope to making your relationship pleasant and long lasting is by keeping some distance within your day-to-day life, your lifestyles, your expectations, and your routines.