sisterliz offers insight
i've realized why people think the worst things about me. I'm not saying all of these statements are all being interpreted incorrectly, i'm just saying that in the past it MIGHT have been that way, but it isn't anymore.
actually sisterliz and i came to realize to the extent where we could actually put it into words:
i will say something about my life, not expose all details of what happened, people draw their own conclusions.
ie: i say "yea i hung out with so-in-so, it was a lot of fun (smile)" people translate that into either i: got with them, or did a drug with them or got drunk with them, depending on the gender or whathaveyou of that specific so-in-so.
or i say "gosh these pants dont fit me anymore (as i hold out the pants to show that there is room for 2 of me in there now)" people assume either drugs or eating disorder, instead of the more likely scenario: alex is lazy and doesn't wash those jeans for a few days.
the moral of the story is "assume makes an ass of u and me"
or maybe i need to be more specific? eh, probably not, maybe i should just be less vague.
actually sisterliz and i came to realize to the extent where we could actually put it into words:
i will say something about my life, not expose all details of what happened, people draw their own conclusions.
ie: i say "yea i hung out with so-in-so, it was a lot of fun (smile)" people translate that into either i: got with them, or did a drug with them or got drunk with them, depending on the gender or whathaveyou of that specific so-in-so.
or i say "gosh these pants dont fit me anymore (as i hold out the pants to show that there is room for 2 of me in there now)" people assume either drugs or eating disorder, instead of the more likely scenario: alex is lazy and doesn't wash those jeans for a few days.
the moral of the story is "assume makes an ass of u and me"
or maybe i need to be more specific? eh, probably not, maybe i should just be less vague.