Day 19 - Something you regret

Sep 03, 2010 13:43


Day 01- Introduce Yourself
Day 02- Your first love
Day 03- Your parents
Day 04- What you ate today
Day 05 - Your definition of love
Day 06 - Your day
Day 07 - Your best friend
Day 08 - A moment
Day 09 - Your beliefs
Day 10 - What you wore today
Day 11 - Your siblings
Day 12 - What’s in your bag
Day 13 - This week
Day 14 - What you wore today
Day 15 - Your ( Read more... )

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blur_kiwi September 3 2010, 10:13:11 UTC
I'm very proud of your music choice. As you can tell from my user name, Blur are very important to me. (So, the blur part of blur-kiwi comes from my interest in music and not the fact that I'm not a very good photographer!)

I have always believed that it's better to regret things you have done, rather than things you haven't. The real meaning is that it is better to have tried things and not liked them than to go through life wishing you had done things when you had the chance but didn't.

You are right with your attitude. There is little point in regretting most things, because even if they turned out to be negative experiences, they are part of who you are, of what has gone into you being the person you are now. I think most people would regret things they said to other people in a moment of anger or malice or stress. Most people understand that things said in the heat of the moment may not always be the things we meant to say. But they remain said. I'm sure your mother and your family understand that and that it hasn't changed their opinion of you and their love for you. Sometimes it's best just to forget and build on what you have now.

Sorry you're still not feeling well. I hope you're okay for the week-end and the time you spend with your friends. Take care. :)))

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carla_flydance September 3 2010, 10:24:07 UTC
Well, I know that) So when I was listening to Blur this noon I thought about you). Well when I hear Blur anywhere I always think about you :)))))

You're right. But I prefer not regret at all. It makes me too dissapointed sometimes. When I am very depressed I usually think about the things that I want to be different, so I don't want to figure them out when I'm in a nprmal mood. Or if I want things to change I just need to go and change them. Not regret about them or about what didn't happen.

The only thing that I'm always regreting is the bad words said to my close people. I hope they just can understand it all but in fact, not always.

Thank you for your support. I hope I can be able to spend my weekend as I want that)))

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