May 28, 2003 18:08
there is a rational explanation as to why i am devoting a journal entry to what im about to write but it doesnt really matter. today i designed my perfect guy.
physical: taller than me, dark medium length shaggy hair, light brown eyes, wears glasses, medium build...some muscles are nice but not like body builder style, has unique clothing style (similar to mine i guess) and has his lip pierced.
personality: laid back, ambitions,intellegent/intellectual, musically talented (drums or guitar), commited, loyal, honest, independent, caring, supportive, patient, responsible, trusting/trustworthy, not jelous and romantic (but not mushy)
he likes: coffee houses, art museums, poetry, ska/"punk"/jazz/classic/swing/80's music, reading, amusement parks, late night movies, dancing, long talks and playgrounds.
he dislikes: britney spears, intolerant people, ignorance.
miscellanious: he is my age or SLIGHTLY older(a year or less)he would have a job but not one at a fast food joint, he appreciates things i like (photography), he isnt racist or prejudgice, he has a good relationship with his mom but isnt a momma's boy, he respects my opinions, body, mind, emotions, soul, etc. he values my time and presence, he is always on time, he shows me off and is proud of me, he feels lucky to have me, he calls me beautiful, he isnt too clingy and "allows" me to spend time with my friends, he likes my friends and hanging out with them, he always wants to know what im thinking, he knows whem im upset by my voice, knows when to push and when to lay off, he cares about and gets along with my family, he drives-but not a volkswagon or neon. he ABSOULUTLY must have had his heart broken. its also attractive if his family is imperfect in some way (divorced parents, absent father). small scars are also sexy.
obvoiusly some of these im a lot less partial to than others. not that i will ever stumble across a guy that has 1/4 of these qualities but thats my picture of perfection.