All great conversations start with, "So, I have this life coach..."

[cardigankate]

So, my life coach - his name is Keith, I need to just call him Keith - told me last night, after I basically had this conversation with him, that I should really consider texting Tom and asking him out - or, inviting him to dinner in a sneakily-platonic-but-not-really kind of way. He said I should really consider it and then just do it already

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[giselleslash]

DO IT!!

I mean, yeah, there's always the chance of rejection, but there's always a chance he'll say yes too! And at least this way you'd know, ya know?? :)

[cardigankate]

That's totally what Keith said. Well, he said it's not rejection and that Tom would probably feel flattered that I asked, even if he's not interested. Or whatever. I dunno.

Anyway... guh. I'm so nervous!

[giselleslash]

That's true, he sounds like a guy that would be really flattered by you asking him and even if he didn't want to go out he'd be really kind about it.

I know it's easy for me to sit here and tell you to do it cos I know how hard it is, and how nervous you must be, but I'll be right here cheering you on and hoping he says yes!! :D

[cardigankate]

He is a really nice guy. And I'm sure he'd totally let me down gently if he wasn't interested. I'm just sucky at this whole thing in general. LOL

I'm tempted to go halfway and say something like, "You know, if you ever get bored when the kids are gone and want company, I'm just a text away." Or something of that nature.

OMG, I'm totally a spazz. LOL

[giselleslash]

That would definitely be a good way to put the idea out there w/out the stress of asking him out on a full-on DATE date. :D

LOL. I looooove spazzes! I'm one too. ♥