What a Man Wants
Maybe I'm just tired...it being 6:52AM and having ran on 4-5 hours of sleep per night for the past week, relying on coffee to do daily tasks...but I've lost patience. I find it incredibly hard to find 'her'. Even 'her' of the moment...So here are some things that I want (and don't) in a woman. I'll place them in order of general relevance.
Category 1: Just about mandatory
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A genuine connection.
Intelligence.
The ability to carry out meaningful conversations about philosophy, politics, religion (It is not necessary that she have an opinion on everything, or be well versed in all subjects. A genuine connection supersedes this category).
Lack of genuine self-deprecation (mocking yourself as a joke is another thing).
Enjoys my sense of humour.
Beauty.
Creates art in one form or another (even if it is seeing her job as a school custodian as an art form because she sways as she mops).
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Category 2: Nice additions
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Has a good sense of humour and can make me laugh (dry humour, sarcasm, wit [to name a few]).
Drinks rarely or not at all: Gets very drunk incredibly rarely.
Has a respectable taste in music OR is willing to learn/listen to genuinely good music.
Has interests in coming with me to do the things I do: Sitting around with friends, going out to random places, concerts, art exhibits, playing video games, playing board games, etc.
Enjoys some quirky television programs that I enjoy, specifically cartoons but not excluding drama, sitcoms, and comedy.
Smokes rarely or not at all.
Is a vegetarian (Eating chicken and/or fish does not constitute a vegetarian).
Respects the English language.
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Category 3: Don't make my life any harder
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Distance is a killer, don't do that to me.
A closed relationship takes a lot of time; Don't commit if you can't commit the time.
Open relationships are welcomed if mutual, this is something that needs to be discussed in person in detail.
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Category 1: Just about mandatory
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A genuine connection.
Intelligence.
The ability to carry out meaningful conversations about philosophy, politics, religion (It is not necessary that she have an opinion on everything, or be well versed in all subjects. A genuine connection supersedes this category).
Lack of genuine self-deprecation (mocking yourself as a joke is another thing).
Enjoys my sense of humour.
Beauty.
Creates art in one form or another (even if it is seeing her job as a school custodian as an art form because she sways as she mops).
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Category 2: Nice additions
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Has a good sense of humour and can make me laugh (dry humour, sarcasm, wit [to name a few]).
Drinks rarely or not at all: Gets very drunk incredibly rarely.
Has a respectable taste in music OR is willing to learn/listen to genuinely good music.
Has interests in coming with me to do the things I do: Sitting around with friends, going out to random places, concerts, art exhibits, playing video games, playing board games, etc.
Enjoys some quirky television programs that I enjoy, specifically cartoons but not excluding drama, sitcoms, and comedy.
Smokes rarely or not at all.
Is a vegetarian (Eating chicken and/or fish does not constitute a vegetarian).
Respects the English language.
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Category 3: Don't make my life any harder
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Distance is a killer, don't do that to me.
A closed relationship takes a lot of time; Don't commit if you can't commit the time.
Open relationships are welcomed if mutual, this is something that needs to be discussed in person in detail.
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