Here we are a little friending 411...
Can I add you?
Sure, go ahead!
If I add you, will you add me back?
Depends. I'd really prefer it if you commented - here or somewhere letting me know so I can attempt to get to know you as well I would rather know and or have interacted with you.
Why haven't you added me back yet?!
Patience young padawan... it'll come in good time :)
Your journal is friends only...
Yes, it is for the most part... anything fandom or not concerning real life-ish stuff, won't be. But like I said, once I get to know you and vice versa, you'll be added and then will be able to see everything.
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Tennantively - your definition of DAVID TENNANT resource