love survey..blah
THE ULTIMATE L0VE SURVEY:
How many times have you been in love?
well, there have been two times in the past where i have thought that this was definitely love. but now that i am with dan, i know that all times before now have not been the full and complete love that i longed for. :)
Do you believe that everyone has a soul-mate
yes, because i am a hopeless romantic <3
Do you think that you should become friends with someone first?
its not something that i feel MUST happen to make the relationship work, but i dont think that it hurts the relationship to be friends first. depends on the people.
Have you ever had your heart broken?
yes, many a time. [BOO]
What do you think about long-distance relationships?
ehhh...i dont think I personally could do it, maybe a couple years ago-i was strong enough on my own then and was already kinda in a LDR but now i'm too content with constant comfort and closeness that i'd explode...lol but more power to those who make it work <3
Your thoughts on online relationships?
i met dan online, but it was never an online relationship (like via AIM or whatever) it was just a friendly chatting and sharing stories and such. it wasnt until after we met face to face that we got into a relationship...so to answer the question, i dont know they're kinda weird but i can see how they could evolve.
Would you rather date someone five years older or five years younger?
older b/c young guys are retarded. i could only ever date a guy 1 (MAYBE 2) years younger than me...if they were super awesome and mature, but definitly a safer bet with the older guys.
Have you ever seen a friend as more than a friend?
are you seriously asking me that?!? i used to only fall for my friends. dan is one of the only guys who i wasn't attached at the hip with pre-dating/liking lol
Do you believe the statement, "Once a cheater always a cheater"?
there are no black or white questions ... so no i think people can change or circumstances arise that are uncontrollable. (good answer jess, i'll keep it)
Have you ever loved someone so much that it hurt & you cried?
I have felt so overwhelmed with strong loving emotion that i've broken down in tears before...i've been in pain for longing for someone...its a really intense feeling, its something i've never felt for anyone else before this.
How many kids do you want to have?
one or two...no more than two...dan's not even sure if he wants THAT many...we're going to have 3 puppies. lol :) just like kids, only hairier.
Is there someone who you like at the momenT ?
yes, very very much so <3
What is your favorite color?
Maroon or red
What are your views on gay marriages?
Love should never be discriminated, and it shouldn't even be an issue b/c where the hell is the seperation between church and state on this one?!?! fuckin' Bush...
Have you ever broken someone's heart?
yes i'm sure i have, i think everyone has had their heart broken at some point(s) in their life, human emotion can be so fragile that it would be hard to not break it.
Have you ever given or been given roses?
yes. kyle used to give me a dozen roses every year for my birthday. Damon picked me a rose from the rose garden next to campus. and Dan will get me roses whenever he's stopped at the light on Papermill rd/Stenton ave. where the cute old man sells them on the median strip. :) its nice and sporatic <3 boys are so cute!
Are you the one who makes the move or do you wait for them to make the move?
i'd much rather the guy make the first move...or at least hint that he wants to (b/c sometimes its not very gentlemen-like to move too quickly)but if he's not goin for it and i really want it, then i'm not going to wait around for him. i do every now and then and then get all pissed off and regret it.
What is your all time favorite romance movie?
Garden State, Eternal Sunshine, Amelie, The Notebook.
Imagine you're 79 & your spouse just died, would you remarry?
no, i couldn't...i hope i die first...i think my heart would drown itself in tears over such a loss.
Is remarriage betrayal?
no, i dont think so at all...i think there needs to be a time for grief but after some time if you find someone who can make you happy again and if you need support or something i dont think its betrayal at all. i dont know what i'd do until i was in the situation myself.
At what age did you start noticing the opposite sex?
i was always such a tomboy...i remember my first real "crush" was when i was in 1st or 2nd grade and it was on Jacob. but then my mom went and told his mom (b/c she claimed he was having self confidence issues or something lame) and i quickly dropped that and i can honestly say that that was the last time i told my mother the truth about a boy until just 2 years ago. lol
Are most high school kids infatuated or in love?
i think its mostly infatuation...but i think that after a couple years of being with someone they grow to know what real love might feel like...i feel like you have to know so much more about yourself than you do at that age to truely love someone and be loved. but ya know, can we really define love? its different to all people...
What's the longest you've ever liked someone?
like a crush? hmm...i think i had a thing for matthew & matt from 7th to 12th grade... probably same with paul tkacs lol i liked all those guys...too bad u all sucked and just wanted to be friends! phewy! lol ;)
Would you give up everything for love?
i once gave up almost everything for someone, but no matter how much i gave them, they never could see me the way i saw them...it took me over a year to build that back up and i dont know if its even all back yet. the funny thing is that that same person who i gave myself to, was the one to tell me this year to becareful not to give too much of myself to someone[else] b/c it will be just too painful to rebuild this time and i might lose who i am forever...i might just give up...and i think he's right. i will give up a whole lot...but everything will be a hard thing to do again.
Will your life be incomplete without love?
i would feel a void if i lost my love right now. but i think that i have enough love from my family and friends and i'm always on the move and changing and growing...i think i would be alright. in fact i know that i would be.
What do you notice first in a guy/girl?
eyes and smile...and sense of humor..if they dont laugh enough then their not worth putting TOO much time into..b/c i need someone who i can laugh with. :)
What do you like most about your crush?
the comfort that i feel when i'm with him, knowing that the comfort bubble doesnt pop just because we're apart (in distance). i like that he wants to care for me as much as i care for him and that i feel stronger because he loves me and believes in me.
Do they know?
i think he does. if not, he will as soon as he reads this ;)
Do you have a gf/bf?
yes
Do you want to get married?
indeed. (my biological clock is ticking! lol jk!!!! <3)
Who told you he/she loved you last?
Dan, i just got off the phone with him like 15 minutes ago.
Last person who hugged you?
i think it was dan, monday night when i left his house...but it might have been my mom when i got home that night and she hugged me before bed...i cant remember... either way it was one of those two.
wow this really ate up alot of time! :) yay!
hope you all enjoy this. i only have an hour left at work YAY!
eventually i'll give a real update (i hope) <3 take care all
tata
-Col