Fuck Riddick

[capnawesome]

I'm over her.

Hell yeah, I'm over her. I don't need this shit anymore. I don't need her. I don't need her.

...ok, so I'm totally not over her.

FUCK

I don't get it! I don't fucking understand. I should be over her. Hell, she's over me! Maybe I can't just let go that easily. I don't know. I just don't understand it. I look at other girls

Comments

Aight

[lame_stamp]

First off, this is hilarious:

"including putting up with the fucking cult that is the Ms. California Pageant"

I'm lovin it

Okay Josh, a coupla things:
1. Please dont go bag on yourself for not being over her yet. You two were in a long relationship, the healthy, sane thing would be for you to not yet be over her. Whatever Jess is doing trying to erase you from her mind is just deluding herself.

2. Its funny that we seem so different, but we want the same shit. But Josh, here's why you dont need to worry about girl stuff- because you have that confidence. You might admit that you only act confident externally, but the fact is that you're able to do that. I'm a whimpy little bitch 24/7, I don't alternate between confidence and vulnerability, I'm set in stone. Thus, seventeen years old and I've never had a girlfriend and have had so little experience with girls that, if experience was measured numerically, I could count it on my fingers.

What?

I think I'm getting away from the point. The point is, you will find another girl. Becuase once you get out of this funk, when you see a girl you want you'll believe that you can get her. And I really think thats all it takes- you've have the experience, you have the confidence, you have the "moves", so to speak. YOu're still getting over a breakup right now so however you function around other girls is in no way an indicator of how you'll function in the future. Also, I know this belongs in a comment to your other entry, but if you're worried about girls at AMDA falling for dancers, I defy you to name one non-gay male dancer. It doesn't work, they're all gay.
Case in point, Andy F.

Did that make any sense at all?
The point is, you can get girls. You've done it before, you'll do it again. You have the pimp juice. So relax, that will all fall into place. And as far as AMDA goes, you just need to be confident in yourself, again. You may not have the comic virtuoso of Carl, but you were good enough to get in and to get a scholarship sumin, so that counts.

Josh, I honestly can not believe I'm urging you to be MORE confident in yourself.

But then, the other day I urged cody to smell even worse, just for kicks.

Take it easy,
Joel

Re: Aight

[ontheroxmartini]

Oh joel you need to be smacked...There ARE straight male dancers....Even straight ballet dancers...At my ballet summer intensive two years ago...There were 12 guys....only 3 of them were gay! Trust me, I know! My male dance teachers...I've had 5....4 of them are straight (2 married and one dated the blonde girl from the A*teens)....One of them...not sure about....But thats 1 out of 5! So ha! Male dancers are so sexy!

Okay Josh...We've been talking about this for like the past hour....Just keep your head up...You don't need to always be with someone to be happy...But I assure you that you will find someone else who makes you happy. I'm sure of it.

xo
Kel

::shakes fist::

[nutcase8]

KELLY IS WRONG:
Those other male dancers that aren't gay are bisexual. Done and done.

KELLY IS RIGHT:
Josh, you don't need someone to be happy. You're relying on someone else to supply your energy and excitement.

MUSCLES IS RIGHT:
If what you've told me more privately is true about Jess, then she is obviously just trying to spite you and get someone completely different than you. That's why you aren't over her and think about her.

I do what I can, Jelly Dan