2020 survey
What did you do in 2020 that you'd never done before
pregnancy, birth, pandemic
2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for next year
i think i've stopped doing those a while back
3. Did anyone close to you give birth? I did!!
4. Did anyone close to you die? Not this year in 2019, Curtis died
5. What countries did you visit
none, I was going to go to Thailand but the pandemic squashed it
6. What would you like to have next year that you lacked this year? I have no idea, maybe love?
7. What date from 2020 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? May 10th, the day I told my mom I was pregnant, Dec 20 Jojos bday
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year? I made a whole human, while working and studying and living thru a once in a lifetime (hopefully) pandemic
9. What was your biggest failure? Giving shane so many chances
10. Did you suffer illness or injury? I had diabetes whilst pregnant but thankfully I did not get covid
11. What was the best thing you bought? A farm? Its not great yet, but it will be
12. Whose behavior merited celebration? Jared. He was there for me thru everything. He painted the nursery, put in a pool, took me to the doctor and held jojo and I
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed? Shane. No doubt. He really left almost as soon as he found I was pregnant. I did push him some but he was definitely on his way out.
14. Where did all of your money go? What money? I make 16$ an hour, I go to school full time and I have a baby.. that’s where the money went
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? Having a pool, having a baby
16. What song will always remind you of 2020? 50 ways to leave your lover by paul simmon
17. Compared to this time last year, are you: happier. I sleep better, I’m more joyous, I’m more tired
18. What do you wish you'd done more of? Honestly? Not much, being pregnant during a pandemic is kinda the absolute best time to do nothing
19. What do you wish you'd done less of? shane
20. How did you spend Christmas? Waiting for the impending arrival of jojo
21. How did you spend New Years? With a brand new baby, went to sleep at 8 pm woke up and went to the nurses station at midnight, got sent back to my room .
22. Did you fall in love in 2020? Yes, with jojo
23. How many one-night stands?0
24. What was your favorite TV program
married at first sight
)25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year? Shane
26. What was the best book you read? I don’t think I read a whole book
27. What was your greatest musical discovery? The star spangled banner!
28. What did you want and got?a baby
30. What was your favorite film of this year? Mulan? I think that’s the only new movie that I saw. Pandemic
31. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? 33. I hung by the pool, pandemic
32. What one thing that would have made your year? Having a partner
34. What kept you sane? Jared. He was always there
35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? None?
36. What political issue stirred you the most? This was the year of the protests. Richmond burned. I couldn’t go out since they were throwing gas canisters and rubber bullets and I was pregnant
37. Who did you miss? Shane. It was super hard being pregnant without a partner. And I think what I hated the most is that he never truly left, he kept stringing me along for the longest time
38. Who was the best new person you met? Rich? My current boss, it was nice of him to give me a shot
39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2020? You cant make someone love you
40. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year?There’s 50 ways to leave your lover
At the beginning of 2020..
Did you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Shane
What was your outlook on the world? Amazing. I was starting a new job and a whole career change
How were you doing at school/your job? I was starting as a tax preparer and starting my masters program
What did you most look forward to? School
Did you make New Year's Resolutions?no
What was your biggest worry? If I should move with shane
Who was your best friend? jared
What did you do with your spare time? not much. watched tv
What did you do for fun? nothing
In the middle of 2020-- the summer
Did you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Sometimes?
Had your outlook on the world changed? I was pregnant, I loved my baby and wanted to be the best
What did you spend most of your summer doing? Being in the pool, watching the news
Did you get tan? No. I wore all the sunscreen
Who'd you hang out with, mainly? Zoom? It was the year of the pandemic
Did you go visit anywhere? nope
What was your biggest worry? The pandemic, the pregnancy, the riots, food scarcity
What was the most fun event that happened? We got a moosie?
And as the year drawns to an end..
And how's your relationship status now? Single ish
How old are you? 33
What major changes have happened since the year began? Ive gained a bajillion pounds (30) I have a baby
Is your life any different from when it started this year? I used to have a boyfriend and he’s gone
What thing that happened stands out in your mind? Shane slowly ghosting me
How have you changed? A big fucking belly
What was the most embarrassing moment? Probably when shane didn’t show up at the hospital
When was your lowest point?
Are you happy with how the year went? eh
What thing would you change if you could? I would have had shane’s support
For 2021..
What do you plan to not do that you did this year? date
Do you think it'll be better than this year? Oh for sure
Do you think it'll be WORSE than this year? It’ll be super hard but not ina bad way
What do you plan to do next year? Be a mom
What are your New Year's resolutions? i quit making those
Who are you spending New Year's Eve with? jojo
And to wrap it up.
What one thing would you like to say as the year is almost done?Man or no man, life goes on. I’ve never been single for this long in my whole entire life and its scary and its lonely and I wish I wasn’t. But it’ll be okay.
pregnancy, birth, pandemic
2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for next year
i think i've stopped doing those a while back
3. Did anyone close to you give birth? I did!!
4. Did anyone close to you die? Not this year in 2019, Curtis died
5. What countries did you visit
none, I was going to go to Thailand but the pandemic squashed it
6. What would you like to have next year that you lacked this year? I have no idea, maybe love?
7. What date from 2020 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? May 10th, the day I told my mom I was pregnant, Dec 20 Jojos bday
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year? I made a whole human, while working and studying and living thru a once in a lifetime (hopefully) pandemic
9. What was your biggest failure? Giving shane so many chances
10. Did you suffer illness or injury? I had diabetes whilst pregnant but thankfully I did not get covid
11. What was the best thing you bought? A farm? Its not great yet, but it will be
12. Whose behavior merited celebration? Jared. He was there for me thru everything. He painted the nursery, put in a pool, took me to the doctor and held jojo and I
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed? Shane. No doubt. He really left almost as soon as he found I was pregnant. I did push him some but he was definitely on his way out.
14. Where did all of your money go? What money? I make 16$ an hour, I go to school full time and I have a baby.. that’s where the money went
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? Having a pool, having a baby
16. What song will always remind you of 2020? 50 ways to leave your lover by paul simmon
17. Compared to this time last year, are you: happier. I sleep better, I’m more joyous, I’m more tired
18. What do you wish you'd done more of? Honestly? Not much, being pregnant during a pandemic is kinda the absolute best time to do nothing
19. What do you wish you'd done less of? shane
20. How did you spend Christmas? Waiting for the impending arrival of jojo
21. How did you spend New Years? With a brand new baby, went to sleep at 8 pm woke up and went to the nurses station at midnight, got sent back to my room .
22. Did you fall in love in 2020? Yes, with jojo
23. How many one-night stands?0
24. What was your favorite TV program
married at first sight
)25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year? Shane
26. What was the best book you read? I don’t think I read a whole book
27. What was your greatest musical discovery? The star spangled banner!
28. What did you want and got?a baby
30. What was your favorite film of this year? Mulan? I think that’s the only new movie that I saw. Pandemic
31. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? 33. I hung by the pool, pandemic
32. What one thing that would have made your year? Having a partner
34. What kept you sane? Jared. He was always there
35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? None?
36. What political issue stirred you the most? This was the year of the protests. Richmond burned. I couldn’t go out since they were throwing gas canisters and rubber bullets and I was pregnant
37. Who did you miss? Shane. It was super hard being pregnant without a partner. And I think what I hated the most is that he never truly left, he kept stringing me along for the longest time
38. Who was the best new person you met? Rich? My current boss, it was nice of him to give me a shot
39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2020? You cant make someone love you
40. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year?There’s 50 ways to leave your lover
At the beginning of 2020..
Did you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Shane
What was your outlook on the world? Amazing. I was starting a new job and a whole career change
How were you doing at school/your job? I was starting as a tax preparer and starting my masters program
What did you most look forward to? School
Did you make New Year's Resolutions?no
What was your biggest worry? If I should move with shane
Who was your best friend? jared
What did you do with your spare time? not much. watched tv
What did you do for fun? nothing
In the middle of 2020-- the summer
Did you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Sometimes?
Had your outlook on the world changed? I was pregnant, I loved my baby and wanted to be the best
What did you spend most of your summer doing? Being in the pool, watching the news
Did you get tan? No. I wore all the sunscreen
Who'd you hang out with, mainly? Zoom? It was the year of the pandemic
Did you go visit anywhere? nope
What was your biggest worry? The pandemic, the pregnancy, the riots, food scarcity
What was the most fun event that happened? We got a moosie?
And as the year drawns to an end..
And how's your relationship status now? Single ish
How old are you? 33
What major changes have happened since the year began? Ive gained a bajillion pounds (30) I have a baby
Is your life any different from when it started this year? I used to have a boyfriend and he’s gone
What thing that happened stands out in your mind? Shane slowly ghosting me
How have you changed? A big fucking belly
What was the most embarrassing moment? Probably when shane didn’t show up at the hospital
When was your lowest point?
Are you happy with how the year went? eh
What thing would you change if you could? I would have had shane’s support
For 2021..
What do you plan to not do that you did this year? date
Do you think it'll be better than this year? Oh for sure
Do you think it'll be WORSE than this year? It’ll be super hard but not ina bad way
What do you plan to do next year? Be a mom
What are your New Year's resolutions? i quit making those
Who are you spending New Year's Eve with? jojo
And to wrap it up.
What one thing would you like to say as the year is almost done?Man or no man, life goes on. I’ve never been single for this long in my whole entire life and its scary and its lonely and I wish I wasn’t. But it’ll be okay.