Sexual encounters of the nonorgasmic kind. :O

Sep 04, 2011 12:23

We're all adult here, or so I think. :D
So let's talk about sex.
When you want to have sex you have in mind that there will orgasms.
Well, I know under certain circumstances both people, if they are both people :P, won't "get off."
And I understand that. I really do.
So here's my question: If you have sex for a month, don't get off, even though your partner isn't lacking effort, is there something wrong with you??
I don't think there is anything wrong with me.
I love sex.
I like to do it. Hahaha.
I know I have a very high stamina; and I'm quite sure this is part of the problem.
Maybe I need "prime" myself before sex. Hahaha.
That would be so odd!
Priming before sex.
I know men do it so they can have that high stamina, but a women doing it so she either gets off or doesn't get upset because her partner got off and she didn't.
It would still frustrate me after a while.
I would get tired of having to masturbate before sex so when my partner and I do have sex we'll both have gotten off.
And now that I'm thinking about it, it is frustrating! haha.
It's not hilarious, but it is funny in it's sick little way. Haha.
By "it" I mean having to masturbate before sex, just in case you didn't catch that.
And that whole month thing I was talking about.
It can be longer than a month. I've gone about that long without sex and I still get upset about it when I think about it.
It is upsetting.
It is.
No one can tell me that they wouldn't get upset or frustrated about this unless they have been in this situation before and learned to deal with it.
And by deal with it I mean either A. put up with it or B. do something that works for them.
It's difficult to grasp when you're actually put in that position. No pun intended.
It's time for me to hit the books, and possibly the pool. :P
Now, I'll leave you with this question: What would you do in a "sexual encounter of the non orgasmic kind?? ;D
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