one of the reasons why people are so devastated right now is because we conjure all these made-up perfection in our heads that we forgot that he, too, was human. in our minds, he became the perfect prince charming -- someone who'd climb on top of the tower, who'd battle evil villains, and protect the princess at all costs. we forgot that this wasn' ( Read more... )

when we finally called it off, i have to admit it felt numb. i thought i would cry and get angry and lash out at you, but it scared me how solemn that particular event was. we were both calm, unfazed, even relaxed. we looked into each other's eyes and saw it -- acceptance. the both of us finally conceded to the fact that we had to give it up. not ( Read more... )