No time at all. You either fall in love or you don't, there's no minimum time limit.
Here's what I posted on ravematch, I think it applies.
"I forget who I was having this conversation with, but I really couldn't figure out the answer. I don't think anybody can.
For all the relationships I've had or that I've seen other people involved in, everyone seems to be scared to death of the dreaded "L" word. But I honestly don't think it really begins or ends at the point at which people seem to feel comfortable even admitting it to themselves, much less saying it.
It seems to me that once you get involved with someone seriously, that's it, it's love. Not an infatuation, not a crush, but love. The same things hold true from that point on. You worry about the person. If anything happened to them, you'd be sad. If they cheat on you, you'd be hurt. You miss them when they're gone.
What about any of these things is not commensurate with the feeling of "love" that we only feel comfortable admitting.. say.. 3 or 6 months into something? I can't find a single thing different from the first day of a serious, committed relationship that would make one any more or less in love with someone than the day when you're finally able to say it.
I'd suggest that it's more of a comfort thing for people. I think everybody has the same feeling, that's why there's always so much confusion as to what to call it. But I honestly don't think it's any different. I propose that it's all the same emotion--love--and that the length of time one has been in it has no bearing on what it really is. It only affects how easily one can get out of it once it's begun, and that's true with any form of love; the longer it's been there, the harder it is to shake.
So.. call it what you will, people. I don't think any of you can deny what it truly is though."
Here's what I posted on ravematch, I think it applies.
"I forget who I was having this conversation with, but I really couldn't figure out the answer. I don't think anybody can.
For all the relationships I've had or that I've seen other people involved in, everyone seems to be scared to death of the dreaded "L" word. But I honestly don't think it really begins or ends at the point at which people seem to feel comfortable even admitting it to themselves, much less saying it.
It seems to me that once you get involved with someone seriously, that's it, it's love. Not an infatuation, not a crush, but love. The same things hold true from that point on. You worry about the person. If anything happened to them, you'd be sad. If they cheat on you, you'd be hurt. You miss them when they're gone.
What about any of these things is not commensurate with the feeling of "love" that we only feel comfortable admitting.. say.. 3 or 6 months into something? I can't find a single thing different from the first day of a serious, committed relationship that would make one any more or less in love with someone than the day when you're finally able to say it.
I'd suggest that it's more of a comfort thing for people. I think everybody has the same feeling, that's why there's always so much confusion as to what to call it. But I honestly don't think it's any different. I propose that it's all the same emotion--love--and that the length of time one has been in it has no bearing on what it really is. It only affects how easily one can get out of it once it's begun, and that's true with any form of love; the longer it's been there, the harder it is to shake.
So.. call it what you will, people. I don't think any of you can deny what it truly is though."
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Love is love, love. Love is love.
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I can say that I Cara am finaly in *lalalaLove*
yeah don't hate don't hate.
but i never thought this would actually happen, where he loves me back too :):):):):):)
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