Sara came out today!

[withoutyoursmil]

#40ToNoneSummit #SpeakingMyTruth! Will post full video of speech soon! #ThankYou @TrueColorsFund #WomanOfColor #Bisexual #Queer #Immigrant pic.twitter.com/1q8JmKih9I
- Sara Ramirez (@SaraRamirez) October 8, 2016

This is incredible! Yay!

Comments

[gpsc21497]

I think alot of is suspected this about her anyway. Becausr people asked her this whe she was on greys. She did deny it which i think is a factor in why she pulled away from jcap amd didnt really do pics together anymore amd also why i think she may have pushed for calzona to be seperated.

However im glad she eventually found the courage to come out. I knew somerhing was brewing with this new look

[mcculbri]

Ditto and well said

[withoutyoursmil]

I didn't realize that! Though I'm not super into fandom on Twitter or Tumblr

[celticshocker]

Just curious as to why you think her being bi had her pulling away from JCap. I don't see JCap as the time of person who would really care.

[gpsc21497]

Im not saying her being BI is the the main reason. The main reason she started pulling away from jcap was because people thought they were together and we constantly bombarding her about being bi or lesbian and she had enough of it. So she started pulling away ffom jacp because with jcap having a child and being married sara didnt like jcap being dragged through the mud

[celticshocker]

Ahhh, gotcha. Thanks for answering.

[funkyshaz57]

That's weird if that was the case...She never supported Calzona but you don't...not support your bread and butter because you're Bi-Sexual..I mean it's not like Jessica was about to fall for her LOL. For someone who is part of the LGBT community and doesn't just support it she did a piss poor job of supporting one of the biggest LGBT couples on screen.

[withoutyoursmil]

She did a piss poor job of supporting one of the biggest LGBT couples on screen.

How?

[funkyshaz57]

I didn't realize it needed said, thought it was obvious. She never supported Calzona. The few interviews she did regarding them, she focused on Mark. She never answered fan's questions about Calzona, she generally never showed them any support at all. In one interview she talked more about the bond she had with Mark and often emphasized that Callie was Bi when people questioned her about Calzona, she would always refer to that, she IMO lessened Calzona every chance she got.

[withoutyoursmil]

That's interesting. I noticed that she and Jess never really spoke much about the couple, but this is the first time I'm seeing people say that they/Sara never supported them

[funkyshaz57]

It's my personal opinion and I know many others even hardcore Calzona fams felt/feel the same way. It was her general attitude towards Calzona, her interviews etc and just a general feeling. How many times did she promote Calzona? How many times did her and Jess respond to fan questions regarding Calzona? In my opinion it's nothing to do with wanting to establish Callies Bisexuality...She was married to a man, got pregnant to Mark, we knew, the audience knew she was Bi. She showed more interest in promoting Callie/Mark and the modern family then she ever did Calzona knowing how much they meant.

Jessica wasn't much better either.

It's not Fact, it's an opinion and a feeling I know many share. Take what you will out of it. In the end it doesn't matter, Callie's gone and people can move on from it all now finally

[gpsc21497]

I see what yur saying. Sara wanted calzona to move on and learn from their drama to be together and have a healthy relationship. But the writers thought it was more fitting to rinse and repeat.

The thing is lgbtq has 5 groups and they are all different. And from a Uk perspective its the L that is under represented or always get the short end of the stick. They are either broken up constantly, or one is killed off or written out when they have achieved a huge following. Then they never follow through for the person left. We have lots of shows where the male relationships are treated better and get the happy ending or the bisexual that is with men,falls for the lesbian, goes back.with men then goes back with women. I just want a proper female relationship done properly on a big show where they face struggles together, talk through them and stay together does that make sense

[withoutyoursmil]

100% makes sense! I definitely wanted that for them too. :)

[gpsc21497]

I agree with that now. I dont understand why she didmt support them as a couple. She never really said anythimg about callie and penny either. I think she did go to shonda about seeing calzona apart and wanted callie to date a man again to show real rpresentation. But onviously tptb saw differently