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its like 1 in the morning and i'm not really tired. so i guess i will update.
sp wed at work these guys came into the store and they were making fun of the shoes and stuff. and i was just trying to make a sale, ya know, getting them to buy the "buy one get the second half off" deal. and before the one kid left he gave me his number and asked for mine. his name is Chris. hes 20. he lives in allentown.
so he called me thursday night and i just didnt pick up. because idk. theres just obviously something wrong with me. he left a voicemail though. but doug said i should just call him the next day and it would be fine. so that was my plan. but then he just ended up txting me friday anyways and asked me to go to dinner, and since i didnt know him from Adam i didnt feel comfortable going alone. thankfully missy just invited herself to go on my date anyways. (lmao sean) so missy goes and calls andy o. to see if he would double with us. but chris said he would bring a friend for missy, no problem. so..this is where my night was funny..
im on the phone with chris deciding on a place we would meet them and missy finally just says Escondido's (sp? sorry sam lol) and he it was roughly 5 oclock. so chris asks what time we should meet him there so i said 7:30. and seans like WHY? and this is when sean got to see first hand what a girl goes through to get ready for a date. so i made him help me pick out what to wear (its always good to have a guys persective) from my outfit. to my hair..to my perfume lol. i took a shower real quick. i was finished getting ready relatively quickly, compared to my usual b/c i knew sean was bored out of his mind. then Aj came over and aj sean and missy and i just chilled in my room.
so missy and i leave to go meet chris and his friend ryan. bla bla those details can be spoken about another time. but AJ AND SEAN JUST WALK INTO ESCONDIDOS...way to drop in on a date guys. lol i didnt think they would actually do it. so chris was like..who are those guys? so i told him they were just my two gay friends. (<3)
overall i had a nice time. if he asks me to hang out again..i probably will...why not right? i guess theres no reason i shouldnt?
ive been hanging out with my guy friends alot lately. and to be completely honest i am really enjoying it. girls are just pissing me off lately.
1. i dont want to talk about:
a. how cute your bf is.
b. how much of a jerk your bf is.
c. how you dont know what to get him for xmas.
d. how you think he might/want/is cheating on you.
e. how you have no idea what he meant when he said _____.
f. how some other girl said this and this about you.
g. and sorry...lastly...how much you love your bf.
sorry. usually i'm just that person that loves to hear it and talk about it and be happy for you and help you out...but this week and looks like the near future...i'm just not interested and my whole life i've been SO good at acting like i care and forcing myself to care..but some reason...its just not in my anymore. i dont mean this to sound bitchy. it might be coming out that way. its hard to explain. but when i hang out with guys...its so chill. and honest. and thats what the caity equation is. chill+honesty. and hey. check out those initials. damn.
oh. chris is a virgo. -ha.
and for those of you who want to know more about virgo's here's a little taste. -*AJ PLEASE READ*-
*Ironically, most of your best qualities are often seen by other people as your worst. It wasn't always so: in ancient times, when priorities were different, yours was the most prized of the signs. Now, it is often the most disliked. Fear not, though-you're just misunderstood.
You're more complex than others give you credit for. As a Mercury sign, your head rules your heart, but this doesn't mean you're cold and unfeeling. On the contrary, your sensitivity is unmatched by any other sign except Pisces. It's often unseen, however, because you tend to be quite shy and reserved. This explains why Virgos are so generous-you want deeply to be loved, so you demonstrate this by going out of your way to be of service to others. You care for them, you do favors for them, you find just the right gift, and above all you give them your loyalty. Because of your shyness, you believe that once you've found someone special, you should do your best to keep them.
Mercury is a sign of intellect, so you're also quite smart. You're particulary adept at analysis and logic-many Virgos are scientists, doctors, and engineers for this reason. You also notice details more than any other sign-and this serves you well in a variety of careers: writer, editor (Mercury rules words), surgeon, even secretary.
You have a great work ethic-you're disciplined, highly organized, punctual, and tireless. (Much has been made of Virgos and neatness as well, but it's usually overstated.) Many Virgos find themselves at an economic disadvantage early in life, so they become extremely motivated to succeed as a result, and most achieve comfortable, if not lavish, means.
Finally, you're a perfectionist. When you tackle a project, you do it right, to the nth degree. You believe you have to be the best at it, so you study, you practice, you go the extra mile, you apply all your little advantages-smarts, hard work, and especially analysis-to get that edge. Once you've conquered it, you like to share it with people, but this often leads to your biggest fault...
Because of your perfectionism, you're a critic. Too often, in fact, you're overly critical. Usually, you don't mean to be. You've figured something out, and you want to tell people. But they think you're condescending to them, or worse, placing unrealistic expectations on them. They grant you your expertise, but they often mistake your snaring for rubbing it in. Many professional critics in the literary and entertainment fields are Virgos, and virtually all chose their profession because they believe in an ideal, in making the world- and their art-as close to perfect as possible. Unrealistic, perhaps, and this is why many are resented.
Even more troubling is your self-criticism. You often vent your harshest words on your own flaws. If you're not the best at something, you flog yourself into working harder until you either succeed or give up. Because you're not very social, you can have a hard time with the opposite sex. Your perfectionism compounds the problem, limiting the field. And when you do find a mate, you often become too critical, scaring him or her away. All of this, obviously, can add up to misery at any stage of the game. The important thing is to realize that everyone has certain strengths and weaknesses. Learn to appreciate your special gifts and accept your flaws-if you punish yourself for them, you'll just prolong your agony.
One more thing: people often mistake your shyness for aloof coldness. When you do converse, you're more comfortable talking business or in-tellectualizing, not spilling your darkest secrets. Thus, you easily give the impression of preferring to be alone (Greta Garbo, of "I just vant to be alone" fame, was a Virgo), so others keep their distance as a result. In fact, you want company, but you're picky. Make sure those you're interested in know you like them, and why. Watch your body language-don't stand with your arms folded over your chest, or avoid eye contact. You're a detail specialist, so use these little details to lead a happier life. "
okay. this entry took me 15 min to write.
work today was fine.
then i had the family christmas party.
I TOTALLY KICKED ASS AT TEXAS HOLDEM TONIGHT.
i want to have a poker night. anyone who can play texas hold em is welcome. WARNING: i will take your money.
then at like 11 tonight robin,jess,anj and i (aka the originals) went to IHOP b/c IHOP is open 24/7.
now i'm going to just chill with jess until i fall asleep.
aka; roughly 9 min.
goodnight<3
sp wed at work these guys came into the store and they were making fun of the shoes and stuff. and i was just trying to make a sale, ya know, getting them to buy the "buy one get the second half off" deal. and before the one kid left he gave me his number and asked for mine. his name is Chris. hes 20. he lives in allentown.
so he called me thursday night and i just didnt pick up. because idk. theres just obviously something wrong with me. he left a voicemail though. but doug said i should just call him the next day and it would be fine. so that was my plan. but then he just ended up txting me friday anyways and asked me to go to dinner, and since i didnt know him from Adam i didnt feel comfortable going alone. thankfully missy just invited herself to go on my date anyways. (lmao sean) so missy goes and calls andy o. to see if he would double with us. but chris said he would bring a friend for missy, no problem. so..this is where my night was funny..
im on the phone with chris deciding on a place we would meet them and missy finally just says Escondido's (sp? sorry sam lol) and he it was roughly 5 oclock. so chris asks what time we should meet him there so i said 7:30. and seans like WHY? and this is when sean got to see first hand what a girl goes through to get ready for a date. so i made him help me pick out what to wear (its always good to have a guys persective) from my outfit. to my hair..to my perfume lol. i took a shower real quick. i was finished getting ready relatively quickly, compared to my usual b/c i knew sean was bored out of his mind. then Aj came over and aj sean and missy and i just chilled in my room.
so missy and i leave to go meet chris and his friend ryan. bla bla those details can be spoken about another time. but AJ AND SEAN JUST WALK INTO ESCONDIDOS...way to drop in on a date guys. lol i didnt think they would actually do it. so chris was like..who are those guys? so i told him they were just my two gay friends. (<3)
overall i had a nice time. if he asks me to hang out again..i probably will...why not right? i guess theres no reason i shouldnt?
ive been hanging out with my guy friends alot lately. and to be completely honest i am really enjoying it. girls are just pissing me off lately.
1. i dont want to talk about:
a. how cute your bf is.
b. how much of a jerk your bf is.
c. how you dont know what to get him for xmas.
d. how you think he might/want/is cheating on you.
e. how you have no idea what he meant when he said _____.
f. how some other girl said this and this about you.
g. and sorry...lastly...how much you love your bf.
sorry. usually i'm just that person that loves to hear it and talk about it and be happy for you and help you out...but this week and looks like the near future...i'm just not interested and my whole life i've been SO good at acting like i care and forcing myself to care..but some reason...its just not in my anymore. i dont mean this to sound bitchy. it might be coming out that way. its hard to explain. but when i hang out with guys...its so chill. and honest. and thats what the caity equation is. chill+honesty. and hey. check out those initials. damn.
oh. chris is a virgo. -ha.
and for those of you who want to know more about virgo's here's a little taste. -*AJ PLEASE READ*-
*Ironically, most of your best qualities are often seen by other people as your worst. It wasn't always so: in ancient times, when priorities were different, yours was the most prized of the signs. Now, it is often the most disliked. Fear not, though-you're just misunderstood.
You're more complex than others give you credit for. As a Mercury sign, your head rules your heart, but this doesn't mean you're cold and unfeeling. On the contrary, your sensitivity is unmatched by any other sign except Pisces. It's often unseen, however, because you tend to be quite shy and reserved. This explains why Virgos are so generous-you want deeply to be loved, so you demonstrate this by going out of your way to be of service to others. You care for them, you do favors for them, you find just the right gift, and above all you give them your loyalty. Because of your shyness, you believe that once you've found someone special, you should do your best to keep them.
Mercury is a sign of intellect, so you're also quite smart. You're particulary adept at analysis and logic-many Virgos are scientists, doctors, and engineers for this reason. You also notice details more than any other sign-and this serves you well in a variety of careers: writer, editor (Mercury rules words), surgeon, even secretary.
You have a great work ethic-you're disciplined, highly organized, punctual, and tireless. (Much has been made of Virgos and neatness as well, but it's usually overstated.) Many Virgos find themselves at an economic disadvantage early in life, so they become extremely motivated to succeed as a result, and most achieve comfortable, if not lavish, means.
Finally, you're a perfectionist. When you tackle a project, you do it right, to the nth degree. You believe you have to be the best at it, so you study, you practice, you go the extra mile, you apply all your little advantages-smarts, hard work, and especially analysis-to get that edge. Once you've conquered it, you like to share it with people, but this often leads to your biggest fault...
Because of your perfectionism, you're a critic. Too often, in fact, you're overly critical. Usually, you don't mean to be. You've figured something out, and you want to tell people. But they think you're condescending to them, or worse, placing unrealistic expectations on them. They grant you your expertise, but they often mistake your snaring for rubbing it in. Many professional critics in the literary and entertainment fields are Virgos, and virtually all chose their profession because they believe in an ideal, in making the world- and their art-as close to perfect as possible. Unrealistic, perhaps, and this is why many are resented.
Even more troubling is your self-criticism. You often vent your harshest words on your own flaws. If you're not the best at something, you flog yourself into working harder until you either succeed or give up. Because you're not very social, you can have a hard time with the opposite sex. Your perfectionism compounds the problem, limiting the field. And when you do find a mate, you often become too critical, scaring him or her away. All of this, obviously, can add up to misery at any stage of the game. The important thing is to realize that everyone has certain strengths and weaknesses. Learn to appreciate your special gifts and accept your flaws-if you punish yourself for them, you'll just prolong your agony.
One more thing: people often mistake your shyness for aloof coldness. When you do converse, you're more comfortable talking business or in-tellectualizing, not spilling your darkest secrets. Thus, you easily give the impression of preferring to be alone (Greta Garbo, of "I just vant to be alone" fame, was a Virgo), so others keep their distance as a result. In fact, you want company, but you're picky. Make sure those you're interested in know you like them, and why. Watch your body language-don't stand with your arms folded over your chest, or avoid eye contact. You're a detail specialist, so use these little details to lead a happier life. "
okay. this entry took me 15 min to write.
work today was fine.
then i had the family christmas party.
I TOTALLY KICKED ASS AT TEXAS HOLDEM TONIGHT.
i want to have a poker night. anyone who can play texas hold em is welcome. WARNING: i will take your money.
then at like 11 tonight robin,jess,anj and i (aka the originals) went to IHOP b/c IHOP is open 24/7.
now i'm going to just chill with jess until i fall asleep.
aka; roughly 9 min.
goodnight<3