Me and my big mouth!
Why did I even mention there was something wrong on Facebook? I should have known better!
My cousin saw it and I'm sure she called or e-mailed my sister who called me Sunday. I didn't want to let her know what was going on then so I e-mailed her about it.
I ask her for just prayers and no judgment or lectures. So she e-mails me back and says she isn't or wasn't judging me but my son. I then ask her not to be too judgmental on him either so then she says she isn't but yet at the same time she says she is judging his sanity.
Then today she calls me and says she has this idea that I should apply for his job and I let her know I considered it but then found out from him (my son) that there is a lot of bending, stooping, lifting,etc. She still thinks it won't be that much and that I can do it. I tell her that I will consider it. Then she goes on about how she's not trying to tell me what to do (she was) and she's not trying to lecture (she was), etc. I kept my mouth shut so as to not get into a fight or argument with her. I know she means well but ...
She was going on about how G has been given all these opportunities and he's blown them, blah, blah, blah. She says she feels bad that he's taking me down by doing this, ad nauseum. So on...
After I got off the phone I just wanted to scream!
I know she loves me and I know she cares and only wants what's best, etc.
But I don't need her advice or judgment or lectures. I need her prayer and support.
I am upset with my cousin as well. Again- I know they are concerned and all but..
I guess I just need to keep my problems to myself or be extremely careful where I post them.
My cousin saw it and I'm sure she called or e-mailed my sister who called me Sunday. I didn't want to let her know what was going on then so I e-mailed her about it.
I ask her for just prayers and no judgment or lectures. So she e-mails me back and says she isn't or wasn't judging me but my son. I then ask her not to be too judgmental on him either so then she says she isn't but yet at the same time she says she is judging his sanity.
Then today she calls me and says she has this idea that I should apply for his job and I let her know I considered it but then found out from him (my son) that there is a lot of bending, stooping, lifting,etc. She still thinks it won't be that much and that I can do it. I tell her that I will consider it. Then she goes on about how she's not trying to tell me what to do (she was) and she's not trying to lecture (she was), etc. I kept my mouth shut so as to not get into a fight or argument with her. I know she means well but ...
She was going on about how G has been given all these opportunities and he's blown them, blah, blah, blah. She says she feels bad that he's taking me down by doing this, ad nauseum. So on...
After I got off the phone I just wanted to scream!
I know she loves me and I know she cares and only wants what's best, etc.
But I don't need her advice or judgment or lectures. I need her prayer and support.
I am upset with my cousin as well. Again- I know they are concerned and all but..
I guess I just need to keep my problems to myself or be extremely careful where I post them.