I can gets married nao?
well, the supreme court of CA says I can anyway. that's half my problem solved. lol and I'm at my church's regional annual meeting working (cause that's what they pay me for) and their first order of business was to pass an administrative affirmation in support of the justices and their decision. and one of the ministers and her partner were a couple that got married in san francisco during the small window of time when it was allowed and she told me they were crying tears of joy all the way down here because that marriage is valid again. such a cheering went on in the meeting during the announcement. I am so glad I was here today! please forgive any spelling/punctuation errors, i'm typing this on my phone. just had to share the joy!!!