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but_fearitself

The Doctor is IN.

Nov 02, 2009 19:13

Hey, y'all, long time no see, and I do apologize about that-- I been busier than a fucking one-legged man in an asskicking contest, like y'all don't even know-- Halloween and all that, which I'll tell y'all all about a little later, and some private business of mine that I very well may never talk about because it involved riding around with a ( Read more... )

advice crane, the doctor is in

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mellifluous_ink November 3 2009, 07:22:58 UTC

On a more serious note--how okay are you with transgender stuff?

I ask because gender and sex are not the same thing, and... well, all the therapists I have ever been to have just bossed me around about 'you need to stop dressing in your girlfriend's clothes and cut your hair and act more butch' and I am like, 'bitch you wouldn't tell this to a natal boy stfu' and even when I use Joker as a reference for 'Um hello boys are allowed to wear heels/pretty colours and still be boys', they don't listen and I need a therapist according to the Powers That Be because otherwise I'm not 'allowed' to get surgery. I swear, I wouldn't be surprised if this whole ordeal gave me some sort of goddamned complex....

I mean, seriously. Wtf. Clearly this means I need a therapist more like you, since the 'normal' people are all closed-minded little bitches.

(sigh) Damn it. I mean, damnit.

mellifluous_ink November 3 2009, 07:23:20 UTC

H'm... probably should have PMed this. Oh well.

theboiwonder November 3 2009, 07:36:15 UTC

This doesn't surprise me given the continued inequality between genders in regards to clothing. Women should be able to wear whatever they want without being labeled, as should men. I think it's an injustice that people can't just wear whatever they feel like wearing, regardless of gender or anything else.

I know you didn't ask me and probably don't care about my opinion on the matter, but oh well.

mellifluous_ink November 3 2009, 07:40:06 UTC

And boys should be allowed to wear bright colours without being called gay.

*shakes head* Honestly the whole thing about 'wear what you want' only serves to make my life harder, since it means I don't 'pass' as male no matter what I wear. If boys were allowed to wear as wide a range of clothing as girls, it would be better. But really? I think we need to examine gender. Even the words we use to describe the genders we prefer are inherently polar.

I mean, 'same' or 'opposite', seriously? What about my spouse, who's an androgyne? What about drag queens? What about birls? What about genderqueer people? What does 'same' mean? Does that mean you only like people with your same parts? Definte same parts? I mean it's all very stupid. There are like seventy billion genders.

unpaidpiper November 3 2009, 19:24:35 UTC

And boys should be allowed to wear bright colours without being called gay.

Hold on, I'm trying to figure out how I feel about this statement.

unpaidpiper November 3 2009, 19:26:21 UTC

Okay, I've got it; I have a problem with their being a problem with being gay.

mellifluous_ink November 3 2009, 19:48:43 UTC

Well I didn't mean to imply there was anything wrong with it. There is something wrong with there being a visual marker as simple as that, that's what I was saying, dear.

After all, I'm a ginormous queen, myself. n_~

theboiwonder November 3 2009, 20:17:58 UTC

I think this was the point I was trying to make. I wish clothing had nothing to do with gender: two genders or seventy billion.

but_fearitself November 4 2009, 02:46:35 UTC

I vote burkas for everyone.

but_fearitself November 4 2009, 02:47:24 UTC

it's gonna be okay, son.

unpaidpiper November 4 2009, 02:55:29 UTC

Are you like obsessively following my comments?

but_fearitself November 4 2009, 03:01:31 UTC

Are you, like, paranoid as all hell? sounds like y'all got something to hide.

unpaidpiper November 4 2009, 03:10:59 UTC

You trade in fear, Crank. You think everyone's afraid of you.

but_fearitself November 4 2009, 02:38:14 UTC

Aw hell, don't ask me about shit like that...

SHOVE A POTATO DOWN YOUR PANTS, WEAR WHATEVER THE SHIT Y'ALL WANT AND TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT IT.

And maybe abuse prescription anti-depressants.

THAT'S WHAT I DO 8D minus the potato

Actually... mellifluous_ink November 4 2009, 02:48:46 UTC

I use socks. (Potato? XD)

Does 'abuse perscription anti-depressants' include anything that releases endorphins? Just wondering.

Now I want a baked potato....

Re: Actually... but_fearitself November 4 2009, 02:58:54 UTC

eah, okay, but imagine the surprise on an assailant's face if he kicked you in the potato-- he'd be all "SHIT THAT BOY IS PACKIN"

Naw, anti-depressants mostly do seratonin. Endorphins are anti-pain.

I am making some damn hash browns right now NO HOMO

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