Life is a balancing act

Dec 04, 2005 13:20

For every good part of one's life, there comes a bad part that balances it out. For the happyness of my sat score, a bad part pops up to make me unhappy again. Jenel is having trouble with our relationship. We only get to see each other once or twice a week, and when jenel doesn't see me during the week, she gets depressed. The past week she's ( Read more... )

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bigtalkballoon December 4 2005, 23:17:53 UTC
First and foremost, are you content with the relationship?

It seems to me as though she's looking for conflict. Maybe not with you, but with herself. I don't know Jenel very well at all, so I don't know how her mind works, but maybe she isn't happy with latency. She might feel as though everything must be dynamic and transient in order for it to be functional or of worth. If this is the case, you can:
A) Stress that simply because you have conflicting schedules and haven't been physically together recently does not mean the relationship is going to shit. Try to make her understand that you're happy with where the relationship is at (albeit you would be happier if you could see her more often), and when you face impossibilities like being in different places at the same time, it doesn't mean the relationship is meaningless or disintigrating. It just means you two lead busy, sometimes separate lives and should be perfectly understandable. You don't always have to be on her mind (and vice versa) in between visits for you guys to be ( ... )

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burnthechurch December 5 2005, 00:04:25 UTC
awesome spiel, ty, great piece on relationship psychology, great analysis, great SFI 98 A+.

lol, jk, but seriously, very nice, ty.

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bigtalkballoon December 5 2005, 00:06:24 UTC
lol SFI, bite me
No input? Damn you.

You're welcome.

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burnthechurch December 5 2005, 00:12:03 UTC
no, it's very nice thank you, i appreciate an fresh outside view on this issue, although i think it's in the process of being solved right now, hmm.

but seriously, thank you very much. how can i have input? argue with it?

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bigtalkballoon December 5 2005, 00:22:34 UTC
You don't have to argue with it, lol. I was just being obnoxious or something like it. It's all good.
I'm always just bursting with fresh outsides views on lots of issues. You should really talk to me more.

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burnthechurch December 5 2005, 00:57:36 UTC
but, that involves talking to girls..... u know i can't do that! :(

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bigtalkballoon December 5 2005, 01:02:25 UTC
;______;

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burnthechurch December 5 2005, 01:24:54 UTC
that smile completely escapes me. in all seriousness. can u run that by me again?

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bigtalkballoon December 5 2005, 01:27:29 UTC
;___________________________________________   ;

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burnthechurch December 5 2005, 01:31:18 UTC
hmm, i'm starting to see a pattern here, but just to make sure, i'm gonna ask you to try a third time.

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bigtalkballoon December 5 2005, 01:35:11 UTC
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burnthechurch December 5 2005, 01:38:49 UTC
hmm, shrunk in size, but added semicolons, most intriguing.

u're having way too much fun here. stop that! this is the internet, serious business, u're not allowed to have fun here.

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bigtalkballoon December 5 2005, 01:41:03 UTC
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>:EE

('-'*)

( - 0 - )/

~( ._.)~

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burnthechurch December 5 2005, 01:43:52 UTC
i see your FUNFUNFUNFUNFNdgndgjhsdgjhsdfgsdtqetwrhf
sdfjdstgje

and raise you a
There are no kangaroos in Austria

Christopher Walken for President
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teh end

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bigtalkballoon December 5 2005, 01:46:09 UTC
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The trueness of one's truth is clearly based on his vernacular inaccuracies. Clearly.

I just wanted to shake it. .... one... time.

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burnthechurch December 5 2005, 01:49:22 UTC
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waking is the sleep of the reason
winter is the forever season
kiss thy mother's bleeding lips
from this glass of hate we sip

Lass mich deine Träne reiten
übers Kinn nach Afrika
wieder in den Schoß der Löwin
wo ich einst zuhause war

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