Annoying Truths
It is annoying and difficult to accept, but:
The person who hurt you cannot heal you.
If I'm focusing all my energy on someone who hurt me and building up imaginary castles of the day they recognize, apologize, atone, reverse polarity, etc., it's time to stop.
Accepting responsibility is a big part of forgiveness.
Self-responsibility.
Once we are adults, there is little that happens to us without our permission.
Bah.
The person who hurt you cannot heal you.
If I'm focusing all my energy on someone who hurt me and building up imaginary castles of the day they recognize, apologize, atone, reverse polarity, etc., it's time to stop.
Accepting responsibility is a big part of forgiveness.
Self-responsibility.
Once we are adults, there is little that happens to us without our permission.
Bah.