The art of being photographed.

[bunn]

I observe that the children of people that I know, if judged entirely on photography, would appear to be all stunningly attractive. Photographs that I own of people that I know from their own teen and childhood years, and photos of members of my own family suggest that by comparison, humanity up to about 20 years ago was largely composed of odd-

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[tovaglia]

Hasn't worked yet for my child, who is the inattentive/grumpy-faced one in all school photographs. Maybe it only starts working at age 13 (or whenever it is they are allowed to use Facebook).

[bunn]

Perhaps at the stage where selfies become expected...

[tovaglia]

I have to say that from quite an early age, if you take a picture of him he rushes round to the back of the camera saying "Can I see? Can I see?" And if he is not happy with the result, he forbids me from sending it on to relatives.

He does not however think it is cool to smile for photos or to attempt to look (what I think is) attractive. It is much better, according to him, to be brandishing a light sabre and pulling one's most scary-looking face at the photographer. The little girls in his class, meanwhile, are much better at smiling sweetly in photos.

Which tells you a lot about gendered ideas of "looking attractive in photos".

[wellinghall]

I think that two of the photos I took of him yesterday are pretty good. I will send them to you when we get home.

[sally_maria]

I wonder if it's more that we can afford to be pickier about the photos that we keep/share - digital photography means it's no longer a horrendous waste to take 10 photos for everyone that you keep.

[alitheapipkin]

Yeah, this is more or less what I was going to suggest. Having said which, even pre-digital my sister has always been way more photogenic than me...

[sally_maria]

I have to take ID photos of people for my job, and one of the things I've noticed is that there genuinely are people who take more flattering photos than others, given their appearance when you're not looking at them through the camera system. It doesn't seem to be age-related, though I'm not taking pictures of children, so that may skew the results.

[parrot_knight]

I was so horrified at the bags under my eyes in one passport photo that my sister counselled and applied foundation before taking some herself. Recently, I've seen that I had bags under my eyes when I was five, though not so pronounced; I looked a serious child.

[island_of_reil]

I hate having my photo taken and always have. I'm self-conscious as hell in front of the camera. There are very few photos of me I'm willing to share with anyone.

[lindahoyland]

I think people are way more relaxed in photos and babies get used to it almost daily from birth.