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Why do people get so concerned over others feelings? I mean, yes, there once was something great there. But now there isn't, and it's not like you didn't try. Things are over, and you just have to pick up the pieces and move on. But can you move on too quickly? If there was someone else there before things turned south for the two of you, is there a required amount of time before you tell the ex- or whatever? How long do you wait? 2 weeks? A month? Can you ever really talk to that person again? Especially after you feed them the lie that, "This isn't about (him/her)." You should call bullshit on that, because deep down you both know that the other person played a major role in the two of you not being what you once were. Is there an apology after being called out?
I just posted on facebook that I'm in a relationship. Tomorrow will be a full month that Coleman and I have been boyfriend/girlfriend. And I'm just now posting it on facebook. I was afraid of hurting Joey's feelings. But really, why should I care? Joey was not a good boyfriend. He did a lot of things wrong, and I probably shouldn't have gotten back with him after high school. But I can't change things now. At least I'm happy now. I'm truly happy. And I haven't felt like this before. I am so in love with Coleman. I actually trust him. Do you know how nice it is to be in a relationship that you can trust the other person?
What do you do when the person you love the most still hangs out with an old love interest? I'm trying to be open and understanding. She's avoiding him. After 2 years of him being in love with her, and being there for her when she wanted him to be, he's now in love with me. He spends all his free time with me, and we have a great relationship, he wouldn't have gotten in our relationship unless he was over her, and he would never date anyone that he couldn't see himself having a future with. And yet he doesn't understand why she's so upset about his and my relationship. He didn't tell her about it until someone else happened to tell her. He says he's not good at the "by the way" comments. His parents still don't know, his brother does though. My family knew the week after it happened. Actually, more like the day after, but I didn't actually say it until a week later. Anyways...getting off track...I want him to be able to have this friendship with Danine, but she's not exactly happy with him dating me. It's awkward. If I had known her before, like everyone else I hang out with, she probably would have been okay with me and Coleman dating. She and I have never really spoken directly to each other. I've met her maybe 4 times in the last year.
Anyways I have to go get ready for church. I hope things get better with Danine for Coleman's sake, he doesn't understand why she's reacting the way she is, and it's affecting him. I think I understand, and he doesn't see it.
I just posted on facebook that I'm in a relationship. Tomorrow will be a full month that Coleman and I have been boyfriend/girlfriend. And I'm just now posting it on facebook. I was afraid of hurting Joey's feelings. But really, why should I care? Joey was not a good boyfriend. He did a lot of things wrong, and I probably shouldn't have gotten back with him after high school. But I can't change things now. At least I'm happy now. I'm truly happy. And I haven't felt like this before. I am so in love with Coleman. I actually trust him. Do you know how nice it is to be in a relationship that you can trust the other person?
What do you do when the person you love the most still hangs out with an old love interest? I'm trying to be open and understanding. She's avoiding him. After 2 years of him being in love with her, and being there for her when she wanted him to be, he's now in love with me. He spends all his free time with me, and we have a great relationship, he wouldn't have gotten in our relationship unless he was over her, and he would never date anyone that he couldn't see himself having a future with. And yet he doesn't understand why she's so upset about his and my relationship. He didn't tell her about it until someone else happened to tell her. He says he's not good at the "by the way" comments. His parents still don't know, his brother does though. My family knew the week after it happened. Actually, more like the day after, but I didn't actually say it until a week later. Anyways...getting off track...I want him to be able to have this friendship with Danine, but she's not exactly happy with him dating me. It's awkward. If I had known her before, like everyone else I hang out with, she probably would have been okay with me and Coleman dating. She and I have never really spoken directly to each other. I've met her maybe 4 times in the last year.
Anyways I have to go get ready for church. I hope things get better with Danine for Coleman's sake, he doesn't understand why she's reacting the way she is, and it's affecting him. I think I understand, and he doesn't see it.